I am pregnant with my second child and my daughter will be 20 months when the second is due. I thought I wanted the p&t explorer but friends have said that their babies outgrew the cocoon in less than 5 months and then their Lo was in the second seat (they did look really uncomfortable). So now looking at all options from p&t to the bugaboo donkey. Would love to get opinions please?? Also there are (currently) plans for a third baby soonish after the second....