My DH is great! So let me tell you, all story tale like what happened today. Talk about a rollercoaster or what.
OK, I confronted, for want of a better word the poor apprentice and put him on the spot, while they were doing whatever they were doing with the tools. I asked him what the purpose of taking the tools was again, got some fluff and bluster and I said 'do you know how this looks? Do you have any idea what thoughts are going through my mind right now regarding your intentions given that you have just turned up in xx's van and are clearing the tools away?' 'yes, I can see that this might not look good' 'well?' 'well what?' 'well, is it as I am thinking? Are you intending to return to this job or not?' And he stalled, and then I panicked. I did not stop him. But he knew I had fears and unfortunately for whatever reason he was not in a position to deny or admit it, as he clearly did not know what the builders intentions were. So they funnily enough made a quick exit and left much more than they obviously anticipated, seeing as they turned up in a great big van, but only took stuff to fit in a car. I think my fury and suspicion got the better of me
So, we lock the house. They have the keys, but sensible that we are, we only gave them keys for one lock and kept the mortice unlocked when they were working. So we locked the mortice which they did not have keys for!! (nor the back door). We were, perhaps a bit paranoid.
DH took me to work. I called him about 2 hours later, and the builder had arrived, without notice. He was not happy about his work being 'slagged off' and DH, on his own for once with it, was very diplomatic. He said we were not slagging of his work, but we had to have 2 working rooms, this was our life, our home and our family and we had put all our money into it, we had to have what we agreed. DH said he was not interested in going over the past, he just wanted to get it right from now on.
Then.
Get this.
The builder admitted the floor was 5inhigher than it needed to be . This threw the stairs out, as they had to be a higher tread and also the head height was wrong because of it so the stairs were put in the wrong place (he did not state this, just implied it). He did not say it was his fault. He of course blamed the architect, saying the architect had not specified to hang the floor from the bottom of the beams, or hangers or something but meant this, and the builder had hung the hangers from the middle as this is what he thought the architect meant.
Anyway, DH asked if the floor can be dropped, and he said yes, and agreed to do it. Also said he would move the stairs back across, and move the skylight back to its original position which means the stairs might even be moved across further, this will give us the space we should had not lost back, and perhaps a few more inches (but we won't get excited by that).
The reason he has agreed to do this, is he clearly does not want to deal with the architect, who called him this morning and told him what he had done wrong, and that he better rectify it, or words to that effect. Good to see who has the power in their relationship . DH said, if he thinks at all the plans are wrong we should get the architect out for a chat and the builder said, no, it will only end up being a blaming session and he does not want an argument, he will just do the changes and then move on with the work.
DH got me from work, telling the builder his next job was to put a smile on my face and that would be difficult. He did not quite manage that, but I told him if he made the changes I wanted I would be happy.
Although this is not in writing. I now realise how afraid he is of the architect and that by this in itself and his admission around the floor, he has made himself liable and the architect has a good reputation, and has made it clear he will not let it lie if not fixed. This means I have leverage. I hope.
So, this afternoon, his builder apprentice and his son spent several hours ripping out walls and pulling up the floors , they are a bit demoralised, but nought I can do about that, apart from thank them for working hard. They suggested I don't go look, as did DH!