House swap dilemma – would you make the move?

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Sorry in advance for the essay 🫣

I’m currently in a decent-sized house (practical layout) with its own driveway. The house itself is fine, but I’ve never really liked the location – it’s a fairly bleak, concrete cul-de-sac (claustrophobic) with little greenery or character.

After years on the swap list, I now have a potential swap to a beautiful period maisonette on a tree-lined street in a much more sought-after conservation area.
It’s considerably more spacious than my current house, with beautiful huge sash windows, very high ceilings, lots of natural light, its own front door and access to a private garden. It occupies the first and second floors but is arranged over four levels, which gives it a very unusual, house-like layout.

I’ve always loved period properties, and the location is somewhere I’d actually enjoy walking around and spending time in – it’s a quiet residential area but within walking distance of cafés, bars and restaurants.

There are trade-offs: higher rent and council tax that come with the area, potentially higher heating costs with a period property and high ceilings, and I’m also concerned about soundproofing, although there is no one above.

After trying to move for years and struggling to find somewhere that feels right, I feel this may be one of those opportunities that doesn’t come around again.

If I turn it down, I won’t continue searching – the whole process has been too exhausting.

Has anyone made a similar move from a house to a period maisonette for the sake of a better location and more character? Did you miss having a house, or did the better location make the trade-off worthwhile? What would you do?

Very sensitive to noise 😭 and cold 🥶 . I lived in a converted flat before and vowed never to do it again. Difference then was that I was sandwiched between two properties. The noise above was hell but the lack of soundproofing was the main issue I believe.

Even though there’s no one above at the property I’m considering , I’m a very considerate neighbour and don’t want to be in a position where I feel that I have to walk on tiptoes .

Where you moved to sounds like a dream. I love trees
and quirky locations. And there’s something about being in the right environment that motivates you differently . Well for me at least.

Noise is the big one I’m concerned with as I’ve lived in a converted property before and it wasn’t fun! It tested my MH greatly. But unlike this property that I’m considering there there were people above which is where the issue came from.

What I really like about this property is that there’s no one above although as with most properties it’s a a row of terraced properties so I would be sharing walls, however the separation between floors makes it feel like there’s a good distance from the basement property.

Social housing worker here. Why does your exchange partner want your house? Check there is a genuine reason such as extra bedrooms or near to schools. If there is no clear reason, you can bet they are fleeing from anti social behaviour of some kind. They won't usually be up front about that.
If you are happy with their reasons, try reading back your posts and descriptions of each property. Its quite clear which property is making your heart sing. Best of luck.

Hello, thank you for your professional input and I do agree that it’s important to find out their reasons for moving and vice versa. I won’t say too much on here just to protect anonymity both ends, but their reasons appeared valid and evidenced. That said even with evidence. I still always remain sceptical as people can use any excuse.

Also, how old are you? If this is to be your home for many years, a property with steps for access and more indoor staircases than normal, while perfectly reasonable now, may become much harder as you grow older. A bit of arthritis in a hip or knee can make climbing stairs quite painful.

Thank you so much for your input. I have considered the stairs but am not impacted by this right now. That said, in many years to come, I would want to get a period house with less stairs.

I’d definitely move for a period house in a leafy area over an area that was undesirable. The stairs might give me pause for thought if I had children to get up and down or mobility issues though.

I’d swap it asap sounds amazing and fun to do up!

It sounds like a lovely property, and if you don’t like your current area, then it’s got to be worth considering.
Can you go and view the house? Visit at different times? Just to get a feel for it before you agree to anything.

@Crispynoodle thank you for your advise. It really is a lovely property and the doing it up part is what I’m really looking forward to, and the features/character mean the property carries itself in a sense . @Hellohelga the stairs do frighten me a little LOL but not enough to turn it down and it probably sounds worse than what it is. It ticks so many boxes, and I really do enjoy leafy locations. My plan would be to enjoy it now and consider a final move in later years if necessary when age takes over.

I can’t help you make the decision about making the swop but I live in what would be similar to your potential new place and we love it. It’s called an upper villa flat, for some reason. My neighbours live on the ground floor and we have the 1st and second floor, so just one indoor flight of stairs up to our place. It’s a solid built house about 120 yrs old, it’s got beautiful high ceilings on the 1st floor, period features such as cornice and high skirting boards and a fabulous bay window, we bought it 30 yrs ago because we couldn’t afford a house with the same amount of space in our preferred location, the rooms are very generous sized. Even though we are in our sixties we have no intention of moving, we’re future proofing the house, we could put in a stair lift if necessary in the future and could move the bedroom “ downstairs” as we have a full bathroom on each level. It’s a super warm property, heating costs are low, and we live in a cold part of the UK.
We had lovely neighbours when we first moved in, I’m not keen on the ones we have now but they don’t complain about us making any noise and I’m pretty sure they would if they heard us. I guess high ceilings and solid floors give good sound insulation even in a house that used to be all one house and we have either carpet or vinyl on all our floors on the 1st floor rather than boards or laminate to minimise any noise out of consideration.

Thank you. I’ve viewed the property and it’s gorgeous. It definitely needs some work, but actually the kind of work I’d really enjoy doing. I’ve let the person know I’m interested and she actually welcomed me to visit again any time.

@KeyboardsrusI’ve just realised you are describing what my Grandma lived in. Purpose built terraces, I loved her home. The upper floor was a huge attic with small dormer windows which these days are all converted to bedrooms.

Hello, thank you for all the information and for highlighting the similarities. I’m glad you like your home. I really like the property, just hope soundproofing won’t be an issue even though no one would be above me. I’d just like to walk around without feeling the need to tiptoe around. Sorry you’re not a fan of your neighbours.