Hi everyone, this is now my third thread, but I have been quiet.
Had a few nightmare weeks. Just feels like one knock after the other, and now I'm just done/close of a breakdown to be honest.
We got our boiler serviced for buyers. It had an 'at risk' fault. Initial panic (but not an immediate danger, so no need to turn boiler off), but gas engineer was lovely and reassuring about it, and said they would come back with a quote to resolve issue. Issue is costing £180 to fix - we agreed to do this, and sent message to our solicitor (to pass on) that we were willing to do so. Not the end of the world (is hopefully getting sorted later this week).
Then 3 weeks ago, we had a meeting at work. Bam - 60 of us (my entire team and two other teams) are being made redundant. Queue mass panic. Even without the house move, without my wages, and living off DH's alone, we're £300 short of our essential bills (with our average weekly shop amount included, but not including petrol etc).
Thankfully, I have now got another job, which I start next week (I have qualifications in a shortage area in the public sector, so I've decided to return to that, which also gives me job security and a small salary increase). Additionally, my redundancy package is pretty decent, but that still needs to cover my normal wages this month. So while 'alls well that ends well', it has been a very, very stressful few weeks.
Then this morning, the EA calls - our buyer wants to do a full level 3 survey. I'm actually surprised by this, as didn't expect a full level 3. We've also had their initial enquiries back this morning - they want an electrical certificate. Our solicitor has reminded us that we are not legally obliged to do this, but it's our choice.
Our electrics work fine. I've said to DH, it's not the cost of the certificate, but rather if it finds a fault - our house was built in the 80s, so not a new build. Yes, the boiler wasn't too expensive to fix, but it still caused a few days of worry. After everything that's happened over the past month, I don't think I can deal with anymore stress to be honest. I'm not in the headspace to be able to deal with it.
We'll probably say no. If they want one, they can get one. I have a feeling they want to negotiate some things - hence asking for this, as well as the level 3. I'm at the stage where ai'm tempted to just say, "Fuck it," and pull out. My redundancy pay needs to cover this month's wages, and part of next month, but other than that we were earmarking the rest for the house move (mainly to help towards removal costs), I'm tempted to just use it to pay off the solicitor instead, as I am fed up with everything at the moment.