Hey all. I didn’t know where to ask this but this seems like the best place?
I'm a Dad+Mum to my two special boys. Wife passed away last year but I’ve been housekeeping and doing the kids stuff for quite a bit now.
my oldest son has a very rare thing and will need surgery on his brain, etc quite often. There’s only 4 hospitals in the UK that can do this for him. 3 in/around London which is a 4 hour trip for us, and 1 in Manchester. I’ve also met an amazing woman from up north and would like to persue a happy ever after tbh. It’s about my turn I get treated right and loved.
only problem is, as a full time carer to my oldest son - I’m privately renting in the south, and am on UC+Carers Allowance. Has anyone with UC moved from South to North before? Was it hard? Will it cause a lot of crazy hardships? I just feel like this move is really meant to be for myself and my boys.
opinions?