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Can I just have a cry on here about my house situation please?

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Cherms · 11/07/2022 20:29

Suitable houses rarely come up in my search area (once every 5 years) and one came on. We immediately put our house up for sale (literally within one day). Two weeks later we have not had a single viewing. Not one. The forever house is having its last viewing day on Friday and then by Monday all offers need to be in. We can't offer without being sold.

I'm genuinely unbelievably upset. We spent lockdown doing our house up to be in perfect condition and yet absolutely nobody wants to buy it. And that means we will never get a house in our search area (please don't suggest changing the search area. It's not possible. We'd need to stay in our current house rather than ever move outside it)

Which means if another house comes up ever again we won't get that either and I'm absolutely miserable about that. We can't sell and rent because rental houses never come up and also it could be a decade before another house comes up. We really really want this one.

It sounds like I'm feeling melodramatic and sorry for myself but I'm completely gutted. Gutted no-one wants our lovely house and gutted we'll never be able to move. I keep getting weird rises of panic/anxiety about it all.

We're on with the agent that's selling but the forever house will sell whether to us or anyone else. They haven't given actionable feedback as it's just that one room is small. Which it is but the rest is great. And it's a lot of house for the money. No viewings. No interest. Utterly devastated at the hopeless future.

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donttellmehesalive · 19/09/2022 18:58

What lovely news. I'm very pleased for you. Enjoy your new, dream home!

IndiaRose22 · 19/09/2022 18:59

What a lovely update. Enjoy 🥰

BringMeTea · 19/09/2022 19:16

Oh how lovely!

Clinomania · 19/09/2022 19:32

Oh @Cherms that’s magnificent news! May I ask if the saving in price was offset by the new, higher interest rate or did you manage to get a good deal (and if so, from where?!)

Datdamndamp · 19/09/2022 19:56

So pleased for you!

Sswhinesthebest · 19/09/2022 20:40

So pleased for you.

Cherms · 19/09/2022 21:09

Clinomania · 19/09/2022 19:32

Oh @Cherms that’s magnificent news! May I ask if the saving in price was offset by the new, higher interest rate or did you manage to get a good deal (and if so, from where?!)

I'm actually on an interesting deal which is fully portable and additional borrowing is at the existing rate which is significantly cheaper than anything on the market. Two independent mortgage brokers said it's an incredible deal and they can't beat it. That's pure luck rather than canny financial planning!

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Clinomania · 19/09/2022 21:18

That’s even better news! For an upgrade we are looking to start from scratch (we only owe about 10k but next house would be a million more for location/size). An enormous mortgage was doable a year ago but now looks terrifying and we are very middle aged…Well done on your deal!

BoopBoopBoDiddley · 19/09/2022 21:55

Yay!!!!

Tessasanderson · 20/09/2022 11:53

Wow, such good news. Congratulations

beachcitygirl · 20/09/2022 14:02

Such bloody wonderful news! Congratulations @Cherms

Zaylok · 02/10/2022 09:31

I love this update, some great news in hard times - congratulations and enjoy the new house 🌺

Ofcourseshecan · 07/12/2022 10:02

Can’t help, just sending a hug xx

Ofcourseshecan · 07/12/2022 10:03

Oooh, and i just saw your update. Hurray!

Cherms · 11/12/2022 21:55

And I'm in!

It seemed utterly hopeless but I'm sitting in my lovely (not as warm as I would like sadly) house and I am so thankful it worked out.

It's everything we needed and it gives us and the growing DC the space to not be under each others' feet.

They played in the beautiful garden in the snow and I could watch them from the kitchen.

The neighbours have all introduced themselves and I've even had a quick cuppa whilst waiting for a delivery. Really wonderful little road.

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angela99999 · 11/12/2022 22:12

Cherms · 11/12/2022 21:55

And I'm in!

It seemed utterly hopeless but I'm sitting in my lovely (not as warm as I would like sadly) house and I am so thankful it worked out.

It's everything we needed and it gives us and the growing DC the space to not be under each others' feet.

They played in the beautiful garden in the snow and I could watch them from the kitchen.

The neighbours have all introduced themselves and I've even had a quick cuppa whilst waiting for a delivery. Really wonderful little road.

So pleased for you, was it the original "dream house" from your first post?
Sometimes these things are just meant to be, it happened to us with our last house. It was actually sold before we'd gone under offer, but came back on the market at just the right time the following year.

Cherms · 11/12/2022 22:17

Yes the dream house! It is proving to live up to the dream too!

Yes there is absolutely tons of work, loads of cracks and damp patches but it's exactly where we want to be, the layout works for us, it has the space around it to extend so it has a warm feeling of homeliness.

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OtleyRunning · 11/12/2022 22:26

😊😊😊

RM2013 · 11/12/2022 22:57

Lovely update and news

Daftapath · 12/12/2022 08:55

Fantastic! Have a lovely Christmas in your new home

Blip · 12/12/2022 09:16

Congrats OP
What a lovely outcome!

senua · 12/12/2022 10:18

Aww. How nice to have a happy-ever-after story for Christmas. Enjoy your new home and neighbourhood.Smile

comfortablyfrumpy · 12/12/2022 10:35

I am so pleased for you 😀Happy Christmas in your new home!

angela99999 · 12/12/2022 12:41

Yes, we had a lot of work to do too, but really worth it in the end.
Did you get your children into the schools you wanted?

Solonge · 12/12/2022 13:00

Delighted it turned out well….nice to read a happy ending at Christmas!

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