Bit of a dilemma- my partner and I recently renovated our home but it cost more than anticipated and we’re left with some work to do that we have to save for, or do ourselves.
we need to paint nearly every room, both work full time, both travel a bit for work & my partner is doing a masters! So time is limited. I want to pay someone to do hallway as it’s a huge job but my partner says he will do it himself ‘eventually’.. I despair of living like this indefinitely whereas he doesn’t care about mess!
i can afford to pay for the decorator myself but wonder if I should? My partner spends a fortune on his hobbies & id would
like him to divert some of that money to getting the house finished.
Am I being unreasonable? Part of me thinks he should pay half, but part of me thinks it’s up to me if I want to pay someone or wait for him to have time to do it for free!
Ive loved alone for a lot of my adult life. Well with kids & so I’m used to doing my own thing.