so is it boring? safe?
I wouldn't say it's particularly safe, quite a lot of drugs and anti social behaviour, although like everywhere there's better and worse parts.
a place to raise a family?
You can raise a family here, I am. Although I wouldn't say its the best place to raise a family. A lot of services have been cut in recent years and I've found it a lot more difficult to find baby groups to take dc2 along to than I did with dc1 only 7 years ago.
plenty of things to do no matter the weather?
No, if we want to do something for the day we usually go to Bath or Bristol.
is there an issue with youths and anti social behaviour?
is the public friendly towards eachother?
I'd say it's slightly more friendly than London but a lot less friendly than a lot of other places I've lived.
is public transport expensive?
Busses around Swindon aren't too bad, about £4 (I think) for a day rider. But if you want to get out of Swindon via bus, like to Cirencester or Marlborough, it gets a bit more expensive and a lot less frequent.
what are the jobs like?
I've never had much trouble finding work but I think jobs everywhere are getting harder to come by. Wh smiths has made a lot of redundancys and Honda is shutting down, not sure what's going on with Nationwide at the moment but those are the big local employers.
is there anything that you dislike about the town?
Loads! I'm surprised a previous poster said people born and bred here love it as that's not been my experience at all, everyone I know who has been born here and stayed is only due to family ties or circumstances not because of actually liking it here.
Swindon also isn't rural so I think you'll be disappointed with how big and grey the town is. The high street is dying and really of you want to do anything, a shopping day, a night out etc, you'll want to leave Swindon to do it.
If I were you I'd go for either Devon or sommerset. Literally the only reason were still here is that we have family in Swindon who helped with childcare while dc1 was young. We're saving up to move and have absolutely not ruled out leaving Swindon if DH can get a transfer with work.
Would you consider a town near Swindon? Cirencester, Marlborough, Malmesbury etc are all more rural towns which are nicer places to live, although you pay an inflated price for it.