Thank you everyone for your replies.
Sorry, I should have probably given more info - I work in LS9, my husband in Yeadon. I don't mind travelling (probs max 45 minutes to work if possible), it will be harder for my husband but he is open to it. We have family in the LS16 area, and were wanting to still be relatively close to them, but recognise this may not be doable.
The most important things are schools and detached (I work nights so attempt to sleep in the day), and just a nice area, somewhere safe for our little one to grow up. We're not hugely fussy about shops, pubs etc.
Have just had a look at Outwood @LizzySkelding, and they have some really lovely houses, it seems like it would less time for me to get work as well. It sounds like the schools are excellent too.
Thanks for the list @MrsRobinson247 - it's amazing!
Yeadon sounds like it could work well for us.
I'd love Horsforth/Cookridge, but doubt I'll find a house for our budget there :( how bad is the airport noise?
Farsley/calverley. Great areas, not got as good transport links to town a bit cheaper - these could work, I need to investigate schools.
Otley - this may be a bit far from work and family, but I might have a drive out to see if it's do-able.
Meanwood - I found a detached we could afford, I'm not sure on the schools, so need to check.
Morley/Rothwell/Pudsey - we will have a look at these, I have friends who live in Morley so will ask their opinions. They all have some lovely houses
Holt Park could work and doesn't seem too far from Cookridge? It looks like Cookridge would be their catchment school but I am thinking it is probably oversubscribed.
Do you have any thoughts on Moor Allerton/Shadwell/Rodley please?
I think I'm going to have to decide between staying put for a few years and saving more or going to max mortgage...