probably fio. I wasn't 100% happy but tbh he was a bit bored after 10 years there and he knew they would get rid of him if he didn't take the redundancy package.
I feel quite wobbly about it all, and it's come hard on the heels of a bad year for me (death of my dad, and a lovely neighbour, trauma of dd2 not getting into dd1's school - now resolved thank god - and lots of other Life Stuff that I really could do without)
I'm also Very Old and pregnancy wouldn't necessarily happen either..