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Home extensions 2017 - Christmas is coming

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Believeitornot · 06/12/2017 18:12

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Believeitornot · 03/01/2018 21:17

The hob can be quite high pitched which might be why! They can interfere with things like pacemakers apparently.

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NamedyChangedy · 03/01/2018 22:11

Wow whisky your perspective is amazing, great way to look at it. I also felt worn down by the whole experience - I think the lack of control is a big part of it. Our homes are a big part of who we are and to give that up for several months is so stressful, along with losing any sense of routine, or privacy. But we all get through it, and hope it's worth it in the end.

And I can't actually believe your MIL did that! What did your DH say? Did he mention how appallingly she was behaving?!

We have just a couple more days to go, as the main lot of builders have promised to be out of our hair by the weekend, I can't wait! There's still lots to do mind you, I'm just going to give it a week or so before I start on my to-do list, and enjoy having the house to ourselves. I just popped in to see how everyone's getting on and to wish any new starters good luck. This thread has been an amazing support, whether it's for advice and inspiration, or just to vent (often). Bon courage!

Tika77 · 04/01/2018 06:56

Whiskyowl your Christmas sounds awful, I understand you wouldn’t do it again.

Dust That floor will look amazing. I never realised those little bits of parquet came in big blocks like that. I suppose you’re not having underfloor heating under it (some people do, we were debaing it bit will go with engineered wood).

Bax my dog isn’t bothered by the induction, not even sure it makes a sound that I can’t hear (it’s got a very low noise I can hear, a bit more with cheaper pans or if I put a wet one on).

DustandRubble · 04/01/2018 07:56

We’re not having underfloor heating Tika. The floor instructions said they weren’t suitable and we weren’t really budgeting for that anyway. The cat may never forgive me, she would have loved underfloor heating!

We hadn’t realised they come in big blocks either, the builders were delighted when they realised. It makes it a lot easier to lay! No bitumen paper or anything anymore either, it just sticks straight down. When we were getting quotes many of the builders were really sniffy about parquet. I think they all envisioned herringbone even though I pointed at our existing finger blocks and said “just like that”.

whiskyowl · 04/01/2018 08:59

(Note: next paragraph is a bit of a self-indulgent derail!) DH and I both find PIL very wearing, so he is is really supportive. Early on in our marriage, it wasn't like that. He was very much in what those in the Stately Homes thread aptly call the FOG, to the point that whenever he saw them (and I know this sounds mad, but I am honestly not exaggerating) after a few hours he would have terrible stomach ache and then go green and be sick. His anxiety was off the scale. It really got to the point where it was affecting our relationship, because PIL made it abundantly clear that I wasn't "marriage material" in their eyes and I felt, not without reason, that this was colouring his view of me. I absolutely insisted he saw a counsellor to work out what he wanted to do (which was one of the most nervewracking things I've ever done) and he reluctantly went... and emerged about 6 months later a much freer and less anxious bloke. The sessions more than paid for themselves, because his work almost immediately noticed the change, and got him into leadership training. And our marriage is much more solid now that we are a proper team. Smile It's sad that his relationship to PIL is more distant, but to alter that, they would have to stop trying to boss and bully, which is never going to happen.

So are those blocks actually already glued together dust? I assumed they were finger pieces that were shrink wrapped, which would then have to be individually laid. I love your floor so much, I'm wondering about getting something similar for my bedroom once I've saved up a bit. It's absolutely gorgeous.

bax - Poor dog! I am sure he will adjust eventually once he realises it's not going to hurt him. I'm slightly concerned whether my cat will cope with the hob now. He hates loud noises! The electrician walked into "his" bedroom yesterday while whistling, and I found him protesting at the intrusion on top of a pile of books in the corner!

namedy - I LOVE the idea of just enjoying the house before you put yourself through the "to do" list. I don't know if others feel the same, but I don't feel like my new space is really mine yet. It's difficult to explain - it's not familiar, as I haven't actually spent any time in it. Allowing yourself time simply to enjoy the new space sounds really mindful, and psychologically quite settling.

DustandRubble · 04/01/2018 09:16

Well done to your dh whisky for getting through it, and you for giving him the push he needed.

The blocks aren’t glued together, but they are held together with a net/mesh backing. At least I assume they are as that is what the sample looked like. So if you need to separate them for narrower bits you can, but you don’t have to lay each finger individuslky or even each square of five.

The lining up and working the pattern still takes attention to detail, but I don’t think any trickier than a patterned tile you need to get right.

tentative3 · 04/01/2018 10:36

Dust where is your floor from? It's lovely.

DustandRubble · 04/01/2018 11:01

It’s from here: maplesandbirch.co.uk/

They were very helpful and answered a whole load of queries we had. Very happy with them so far.

tentative3 · 04/01/2018 11:46

Thanks! We need new floor downstairs so I might investigate.

whiskyowl · 04/01/2018 12:14

dust - they have so many lovely kinds of flooring on that site! Thanks so much for the recommendation.

Update from IkeaHell: my kitchen is now being delivered in FIVE - yes FIVE - separate deliveries. It was supposed to be here on 27 December, and the last scheduled delivery at this point is 5 February.

DustandRubble · 04/01/2018 12:52

Five! Bloody hell. They really have mucked you about.

There is a lot of lovely flooring there, I’m glad we were matching existing or I don’t know how I would have chosen what to put on the floor!

The builders have had to pump water out of the foundation trench to keep digging because of the rain. It has made a right mess of the pavement. I am actually hoping for more rain so the neighbours don’t hate us! Attempts to clean it up were not very successful. I think they need a pressure washer.

ponzusoup · 04/01/2018 13:07

Hello. Newbie here. Starting a side return kitchen extension next week with foundations over a drain. Could be messy. Am going to attempt to live in the house ( kitchen in lounge job) and not got mad. Please hold my hand.

Believeitornot · 04/01/2018 14:24

Love the floor Dust!

whisky, I know what you mean about the new space not feeling your own. I feel like the whole of downstairs is alien and I have an urge to really get stuck in making it my own. But as yet not possible as we are in limbo waiting to finish properly.

Tiler has been today to grout the tiles and I’ll post a pick after a clean - they look lovely.

Really need some decent furniture as the kitchen island is the current dumping ground. We’ve got no shelves etc for post/keys yet.

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Believeitornot · 04/01/2018 14:25

Welcome @ponzusoup

We lived through ours and it was ok but it sort of crept up on us, then all of a sudden we realised we had to wash up in the bath. But luckily we had our old kitchen for a while. I’m still weaning the dcs off of macdonalds Blush

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DustandRubble · 04/01/2018 14:32

Welcome ponzu. Living in it is definitely possible, we are mostly coping with our kitchen in lounge. It is hard right now when I have a yearning to eat healthily but the thought of the washing up and lack of space make ready meals a more attractive prospect. The lack of downstairs sink is the worst thing, definitely. Even stupid stuff like when the kids want a glass of water and I realise the fridge jug is empty.

TeamRick · 04/01/2018 18:00

Welcome Ponzu, we lived through our extension too, just but obviously we had the dreaded Twatchops! I'm sure you will be fine!

Tiling done here but not yet grouted but you get the idea! Really pleased so far!

Home extensions 2017 - Christmas is coming
Home extensions 2017 - Christmas is coming
DustandRubble · 04/01/2018 18:23

Oh it is lovely TeamRick! I am so happy for you that it looks so good after all the hassle you have had.

Does anyone else living through it dream about meals you will make when you have a proper kitchen again? I have promised my daughter a lasagne. I want to make a cake. And a roast.

Tika77 · 04/01/2018 18:38

TeamRick I’m glad metro tiles are still ‘in’, we’re going to have them in white in the kitchen an well. What colour will your grouting be?

Whisky: What happened to Ikea? We had a kitchen from them about 10 years ago, it went all smooth. Very annoying. I’m dead jealous of the cat having his own room though. :-))

TeamRick · 04/01/2018 20:28

Tika - grey grout I'm hoping it's not a mistake!

Dust I baked last week on my lovely Long Island worktop! It was hell in the old kitchen, no worktop space! It was a real pleasure!

Guess what I baked? A gin cake! GinGinGin😂

Believeitornot · 04/01/2018 22:02

There’s such a thing as gin cake Shock 😍

Grey grout sounds sensible. We had white metro tiles with white grout in our last place and it was so hard to keep clean!!

We’ve gone for white grout this time because the tiles are grey and I wanted them to stand out.

Pic of tiles attached - haven’t cleaned yet as waiting for grout to dry

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DustandRubble · 04/01/2018 22:15

Where are your lovely tiles from Believe? And do they come in orange?

Believeitornot · 04/01/2018 22:37

Tiles are from porcelain superstore - only in grey, black or white.

Orange sounds nice!! You can get orange rectangular tiles and could lay them in a herringbone pattern like this?

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Baxdream · 04/01/2018 22:38

We have an ensuite 😍

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TeamRick · 04/01/2018 22:39

Oh they are nice Believe!

There sure is such a thing, loads of gin in it & it was delicious!

TeamRick · 04/01/2018 22:46

Cross post Bax, wow, I love it!

Brilliant to see all these photos now!

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