We are looking to move quite soon but are torn in half. We currently live and I'm a teacher in Birmingham and for the last year my DH has been travelling for work in Basingstoke. It's a huge commute for him and he ends up staying there a couple of nights a week. His flat is in Southampton so he still has a good commute from there. To add to the complications, I'm pregnant with twins. We want to stay in the Midlands but definitely more rural than Brum.