This is a long shot, but has anyone had a side return extension that involved building right against your neighbour's wall? If so, was your wall joined to your neighbour's wall in some way or is there a narrow gap?
I'm just about to get planning permission to do this and I've seen lots of extensions like it but I'm not sure what to actually ask the builders to do.
(I am foolishly trying to draw my own building regs drawings, not from scratch but using a set that I had drawn a few years ago for a slightly different extension that I didn't end up building. The chap who drew them says he is too busy to amend them and I don't want to pay for a whole new set of drawings.)