"Aga- That analogy doesn't make any sense. All that says is that it's only worthwhile for you to inherit a large sum of money and not a small one? So if the OP was sitting on a beautiful house worth a million quid then it'd be okay to evict the tenant and cash in, but because it's run down and not worth all that much, then she should just give it to the tenant? Riiiiight. Of course it's bloody ludicrous to suggest she gives it to the tenant, it's a house, a bloody house! Not a dolls house, not a wendy house, an actual real property. "
I'm not really sure what your point is.
I haven't suggested evicting the tenant if the house is worth £1m.
All I am saying is that a house isn't necessarily a hugely valuable asset.
You can find houses for £20k around the country. In Detroit they go for $1k in many places.
If you inherit a house in a bad part of Detroit, or Hartlepool, or a rundown house with a sitting tenant, then you haven't inherited Buckingham Palace have you? It's just the way it goes isn't it? Some of us inherit millions, some of us inherit nothing.
You can't go on spluttering about 'it's an actual real property'. So what?
I remember watching a documentary about an old couple in a sink estate (crime, guns, murder) back in the 90s, they wanted £2,000 for their house to start a new life. It didn't fetch that much, and they couldn't go. That was sad for them, but that was reality. They didn't get to say 'but it's a house! it's worth hundreds of thousands!'. No, they had to live with reality, (and that was their only house - the OP and her husband own how many???) just as OP needs to accept the reality that a dilapidated house with a sitting tenant is as much a millstone as an asset, and if they can't afford to sit on it until the tenant dies, then they need to sell it for whatever price they can, or indeed give it away.