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To think a lot of people who agree with VAT on school fees…

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geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 17:44

Actually don’t truly understand that to most sending their kids to these schools, it is a massive, massive struggle already.

There seems to be a mentality that if you can afford 20k a year then you’re already comfortable so sod it, you should find more cash now for vat … but do people in general not understand that some families re mortgage their homes to pay these fees? Yes there’s mega wealthy people but there’s many, many more who are not.

On the one hand we hear a good education is a luxury so VAT must be applied, then on the other we are told a good education is a right for all. So… why are we taking away that good education from those who already have it? Why is the focus not on sorting out the state sector properly? We all know the vat won’t fix the state sector. It may help in a tiny way in ad hoc circumstances but there’s so so so much more that needs to be done to state schools to make them ever match what the private sector offers.

I simply don’t get this mentality that those making sacrifices must make more when it comes to bloody education. I say this as someone who can’t afford the fees but if I could I absolutely would… and I also acknowledge that I am unwilling to go to some lengths that others will to pay it. I respect the choice of others to make such sacrifices and have no desire to make it harder and more inaccessible for the masses to access it. Similarly, I know plenty of people driving fancy cars and spending loads on holidays… they’ve chosen that over school fees. And those who have spend loads getting into a postcode of a decent state school… should they be paying enhanced tax on their house purchase?

Why do most people think those who pay schools fees are doing so with great ease? Is it basically because they don’t personally know people paying this so accept the media narrative that it’s the mega rich only?

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Emptyandsad · 06/10/2024 20:58

Nordione1 · 06/10/2024 20:50

I believe strongly that all children need to know how to write clearly what they mean in order to express themselves properly. This involves being able to spell, use grammar and chose appropriate words. I don't think children can do this as well these days and I think it puts them at a disadvantage later in certain areas of life. I don't think schools (private or state) teach children as well as we used to be taught (looking at my own children's writing). I also think people involved in education need to be able to write properly and it is dreadful if teachers etc cant spell. We are discussing on this thread raising standards aren't we? Surely we want our children to be taught to the highest standards. That's my pushy middle class sharp elbowed talk by the way...the sort people on this thread suggest (for some reason) will raise standards in state schools. I don't think they will be welcomed.

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I agree with you; grammar and spelling is important. Teachers should be proficient in both.

But governors are not teachers. They are (or should be) people with ideas and rigour and ambition. And people who communicate their ideas clearly (and have ideas and hopes) should not be ridiculed for trying to raise standards. There's nothing inconsistent or hypocritical about people who can't spell wanting higher standards of education. Pouring scorn on them is an attempt to discredit the content of their contribution because of their manner of that contribution. Listen to what they say (and argue against it by all means) not how they say it

Applesonthelawn · 06/10/2024 20:58

If this goes through, there will be fewer excellently educated people. There will still be dedicated teachers/parents keeping the show on the road and some children will be well educated, but just not so many. Because the chance of any spared cash (which may well not be much once the extra spaces in state education have been found) going into actual education is slim.

They need to generate higher GDP/wealth, not make things more expensive - get people back to work. Reducing the number of excellently educated people will not achieve that.

CurlewKate · 06/10/2024 20:59

@geeenuoe "Actually don’t truly understand that to most sending their kids to these schools, it is a massive, massive struggle already."

The people who are against VAT on private schools don't truly understand that for many people simply putting food on the table is a massive,massive struggle and it is crass in the extreme to talk about struggle and sacrifice in the context of paying school fees.

MrsSchrute · 06/10/2024 21:00

Applesonthelawn · 06/10/2024 20:58

If this goes through, there will be fewer excellently educated people. There will still be dedicated teachers/parents keeping the show on the road and some children will be well educated, but just not so many. Because the chance of any spared cash (which may well not be much once the extra spaces in state education have been found) going into actual education is slim.

They need to generate higher GDP/wealth, not make things more expensive - get people back to work. Reducing the number of excellently educated people will not achieve that.

Well then, isn't it good that there are many many many excellently educated people in state schools!

OhCrumbsWhereNow · 06/10/2024 21:00

Emptyandsad · 06/10/2024 19:58

If wealthy, influential, hard-working, pro-active, educated, motivated, articulate, ambitious parents send their children to state schools they will be very motivated to see standards in state schools improve. They will work to this goal by voting, by PTA involvement, by being on the board of governors, by political activity, both local and national. Because they won't tolerate under-perfoming schools for their children, while currently they do tolerate them for other people's children

Incorrect - we pay for private tutoring outside school.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 21:00

RaspberryRipple2 · 06/10/2024 19:19

Your point of view makes absolutely no sense to me. I assume the people paying thousands to educate their kids when they could have the same or similar outcome (the outcome of either is by no means guaranteed) for free must be very rich. The fact that people might struggle day to day for this is just bat shit to me and many others.

The best universities are becoming more biased towards state pupils. The biggest graduate employers have intakes biased towards social mobility. Promotions and progression at those employers are then monitored towards equality for social mobility. Wtf are you buying? Have you even thought it through?

@RaspberryRipple2 its ‘batshit’ to you so your kids, if you have any, will be in the state sector. Good for you.

And no, I don’t care about my child being in the state sector to gain an advantage for a university place. I am happy for her to come second place to those in state it means she can have a happy and decent all round education in a private school. That’s what we would be buying.

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FloralGums · 06/10/2024 21:00

iamtheblcksheep · 06/10/2024 17:59

No they don’t because most of them are so far up their own arses with jealousy they cant think straight.

A lot of the children at my child’s school are either on bursaries or have parents that have two, three jobs to make ends meet.

Then there are parents like me. I couldn’t give a toss if you put another 20k/30k on school fees. I can afford it. The new laws are not punishing the people they intended to punish.

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A lot of the children at my children’s school have parents who can’t afford food, heating, clothes or rent. I reserve my sympathy for them rather than those very few who might have to join us at a state school.

Emmanuelll · 06/10/2024 21:01

Dorisbonson · 06/10/2024 20:51

On average anyone with an income of less than 65k a year is subsidised by someone earning more than 65k. This because someone earning less than 65k on average consumes government services more costly than the tax they pay into the state.

Factually private school parents are highly likely to be subsidising state school parents but of course facts are irrelevant to a debate which shaped by emotion and ideology.

Indeed according to the institute for fiscal studies lower/average earners in the UK pay comparatively little tax compared to the lower/average earners in rest of Europe. Whilst higher earners in the UK pay comparatively the highest taxes most in the developed world. Perhaps it's time for average earners to pay more tax?

In Spain the 30% tax rate starts at around 20,000 euros, in Belgium the 40% tax band starts at 12,000 euros income. In Portugal it's 37% at 27,000 euros (23k GBP).

It seems like it's time for taxes to go up on average earners to pay for everything they want?

Wow what a load of rubbish.

Dorisbonson · 06/10/2024 21:01

CheeseandWine91 · 06/10/2024 20:42

Where do you propose the money comes from then OP? If the funds are going to be used to specifically increase the standard of state education, surely this is a sensible way to raise them? By taxing those who arguably can afford it? That’s how tax works, the more you earn, the more you are taxed.

Average earners in the UK pay far less tax than their European counterparts. Higher earners in the UK pay the highest rates of tax in Europe (per the institute for fiscal studies).

Perhaps we should copy European countries and make average earners pay more tax and stop clobbering the higher earners who already pay among the highest taxes in Europe.

How do you feel about that?

Cwassonk · 06/10/2024 21:03

KatieL5 · 06/10/2024 19:12

Such a ridiculously ill informed post.

Private school parents massively subsidise the state sector. The idea that poorer people are somehow subsidising rich people’s education is absurd.

It is a line made up by Labour to garner support from those who couldn’t be bothered to research the facts. It says a lot about some people that they genuinely believe it to be true.

How do private school parents massively subsidise the state sector?

Dorisbonson · 06/10/2024 21:03

Emmanuelll · 06/10/2024 21:01

Wow what a load of rubbish.

These are a mixture of published legal facts, research from the institute for fiscal studies and the office of budget responsibility.

You can call it rubbish but you would be factually incorrect.

If you don't like facts keep living in dream world. I'll stick with the real world.

ChefsKisser · 06/10/2024 21:05

DadJoke · 06/10/2024 17:49

It’s literally not true. Almost everyone who send their kids to private school is in the top 5% of earners in the country and they have the option not to do it. It is not remotely a sacrifice.

This. Is a privilege and a luxury. There’s a perfectly fine free option that’s fit for everyone else. If you want to stretch yourselves and struggle to pay school fees more fool you.

outofofficeagain · 06/10/2024 21:05

@OhCrumbsWhereNow but those motivated, tutored children would be in classes with other students, who would all benefit.

Peer groups are vitally important in education settings and a higher proportion of kids who want to learn and have additional resources, the better everyone's education will be.

Also, you'll vote for the party, locally and nationally, who care about schools, because it will matter to you. School funding then moves up the political agenda.

Dorisbonson · 06/10/2024 21:06

Cwassonk · 06/10/2024 21:03

How do private school parents massively subsidise the state sector?

I suspect this is because if you earn less than 65k a year in the UK you are being subsidised by someone earning over 65k.

Anyone earning less than 65k a year on average consumes government services which cost more to provide than the tax they pay into the system.

Emptyandsad · 06/10/2024 21:06

outofofficeagain · 06/10/2024 21:05

@OhCrumbsWhereNow but those motivated, tutored children would be in classes with other students, who would all benefit.

Peer groups are vitally important in education settings and a higher proportion of kids who want to learn and have additional resources, the better everyone's education will be.

Also, you'll vote for the party, locally and nationally, who care about schools, because it will matter to you. School funding then moves up the political agenda.

This

Nordione1 · 06/10/2024 21:07

Emptyandsad · 06/10/2024 20:58

I agree with you; grammar and spelling is important. Teachers should be proficient in both.

But governors are not teachers. They are (or should be) people with ideas and rigour and ambition. And people who communicate their ideas clearly (and have ideas and hopes) should not be ridiculed for trying to raise standards. There's nothing inconsistent or hypocritical about people who can't spell wanting higher standards of education. Pouring scorn on them is an attempt to discredit the content of their contribution because of their manner of that contribution. Listen to what they say (and argue against it by all means) not how they say it

Ok fair enough.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 21:07

Emptyandsad · 06/10/2024 19:58

If wealthy, influential, hard-working, pro-active, educated, motivated, articulate, ambitious parents send their children to state schools they will be very motivated to see standards in state schools improve. They will work to this goal by voting, by PTA involvement, by being on the board of governors, by political activity, both local and national. Because they won't tolerate under-perfoming schools for their children, while currently they do tolerate them for other people's children

@Emptyandsad wow!

So it’s the responsibility of 7% of parents to improve state schools?

sorry, what? Why aren’t the 93% of parents already doing this?

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SophiaJ8 · 06/10/2024 21:07

Cwassonk · 06/10/2024 21:03

How do private school parents massively subsidise the state sector?

Because they pay taxes for education but don’t use it… are you honestly asking this question?

And as PP said; private school parents will be more likely be higher rate taxpayers to start with.

Bluepiano · 06/10/2024 21:08

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 17:53

@howshouldibehave its not true though. Nearly everyone in my Dd’s 17 in a class (age 7) has been away in summer, abroad too.

But is your daughter’s class representative of the country as a whole? Do you live in an affluent area? How many children have free school meals? Most primary school classes have 30 not 17. You need to base your opinion on more than just your own experience as it’s probably not how a large % of the country live.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 21:09

CurlewKate · 06/10/2024 20:59

@geeenuoe "Actually don’t truly understand that to most sending their kids to these schools, it is a massive, massive struggle already."

The people who are against VAT on private schools don't truly understand that for many people simply putting food on the table is a massive,massive struggle and it is crass in the extreme to talk about struggle and sacrifice in the context of paying school fees.

@CurlewKate maybe. I guess it depends how much value (literal and otherwise) you put on education.

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CrikeyMajikey · 06/10/2024 21:10

I sent my DC to private school for 4 years and was surprised that VAT wasn’t charged.

KatieL5 · 06/10/2024 21:11

outofofficeagain · 06/10/2024 20:56

@AboutVattime ex-grammar pupil here and my DC go to grammar because we live in a town which is fully grammar and secondary modern (as opposed to the super-selective ones).

You are right, there is an element of tutor inflation (it certainly didn't exist when I went) but it only goes so far.

There are children who have been tutored since year 3 and they still don't pass and the heavily tutored ones are all miserable when they get there.

Here, the private schools are full of wealthy students who didn't pass. Hardly anyone would turn down a grammar place to go private.

And I'm not in favour of them, even though I chose them for my children. They are getting a great education but it is at the expense of those in the secondary modern. I cannot justify it under any argument other than my child does well out of it.

But the private school parents claiming they'll just 'take up all the grammar places' isn't true.

That’s an interesting point.

When I was at school people tried to get into the highly selective private schools and those who failed to obtain a place went to the grammars which were definitely seen as being an inferior option. The difference then was that private fees were far lower so the choice was much easier to make.

Nowadays of course the choice is very different as fees are 2 or 3 times higher in real terms.

I now live in an area with no grammars so everyone who can afford it still target the selective private schools which not surprisingly perform miles better than any of the local state schools.

In areas where there are still grammars are the private schools coming under far more pressure as there is a viable alternative that can save parents £100,000’s?

CreateUserNames · 06/10/2024 21:11

Dorisbonson · 06/10/2024 21:01

Average earners in the UK pay far less tax than their European counterparts. Higher earners in the UK pay the highest rates of tax in Europe (per the institute for fiscal studies).

Perhaps we should copy European countries and make average earners pay more tax and stop clobbering the higher earners who already pay among the highest taxes in Europe.

How do you feel about that?

We absolutely should!

Emmanuelll · 06/10/2024 21:12

These are a mixture of published legal facts, research from the institute for fiscal studies and the office of budget responsibility.

Links please? How can you possibly know how much someone earns and how much they 'take' from the state?

Let's also reflect on how screwed you'd be, and everyone else if people flatly refused to do lower paid jobs.

geeenuoe · 06/10/2024 21:12

Happyher · 06/10/2024 20:50

Most of us don’t think anything about it. Either reduce your spending on other luxuries or get a better job. That’s what the Tories told people who were struggling with the cost of living.

@Happyher so bitter and jealous. You’re talking about a children in a school they may have to leave. Grow up.

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