ds (9) being bullied by 3 girls

[cuppa]

I'd really appreciate advice on dealing with this.

Ds told me 2 weeks ago he's being bullied by 3 girls in his class - calling him stupid names, taking the piss out of him, hanging round when he's playing football and laughing and saying he's rubbish etc etc.

he's quite sensitive and it's really denting his confidence. He comes home dejected instead of bouncy.

I know it's not major hardcore stuff compared with the horror stories, but I'd still love advice.

Problem is, cos he's a boy I don't think it's taken seriously. They're all in the same class. The teacher has spoken to the girls, but it doesn't seem to have helped. Finally, after more bother today, he's told to just ignore them.

Seems pretty lame to me. What can /should the teacher be doing? How can I deal with the teacher most productively? How can I support my son for the best?

Thanks

I'm so glad that this is getting sorted out for your son, cuppa!! Not only should your son feel happier, but the girls should learn a lesson AND the class will see that the school takes bullying seriously too!

sunnygirl.

cuppa - so pleased for you and ds. Having been through it all, I know that it keeps you awake at night etc, worrying.

Well done! And you have not only been doing him a great favour, you are also helping those girls, by making sure they are given clear signals about what is acceptable behaviour. And helping the next person they might otherwise have picked on.

This is great! I bet you're glad you emailed. Well done you.

thanks everyone.

You know, ds bounded in from school with a big smile on his face for the 1st time in ages. It was a wonderful sight

Now just need to monitor and maintain and keep an eye on things.

I'm so glad to hear that, cuppa.

Hugs to you both
sunnygirl.