It's that time of year again!
Super selective schools often get a lot of criticism from those who don’t have kids enrolled there. My daughter attends one of these schools for girls, and it seems to attract the most negativity and misinformation on forums. But here’s the kicker: the parents and girls at the school are generally all happy! I also know quite a few boys at these schools, and guess what? They love their experience too! But these schools are definitely not for everyone.
These schools really know how to choose kids who will thrive in their environment. If your son has received an offer, chances are he’ll enjoy the learning pace, and you’ll be thrilled to see him loving his new school, despite what the naysayers claim.
According to the negative commenters, the 7+ process is supposed to be a nightmare that ruins kids. Sure, it might be tough for some, but what about your son? Did he find it largely okay and learn a fair bit along the way, maybe even enjoy parts of it? Every child and family has a different experience.
You also can’t really know the true motives of random people (me included!) on anonymous sites, especially during times like this. For instance, if you’re on the waiting list for one of these schools and feeling desperate, you might say anything to secure a spot.
Just my two cents: Talk to parents who have kids at the school you’re considering. Schools often connect you with their PTA. Also, take another tour of the school and see it for yourself. Chat with the kids—do they seem happy and engaged, or like they’re just going through the motions like over tutored zombies?
Lastly, check out where the students go after graduation and what they pursue. Look at the universities they attend and the courses they choose. Junior school years fly by, and your son will be tackling GCSEs before you know it. While these schools may have similar GCSE and A-level results, the paths their students take afterward can be quite different.
Congratulations to your son!