My DD started year 2 in September. She is August born. When I refer to the groups, there’s obvious ability grouping in the class even though the kids/parents aren’t told, six children out of a class of 30 are in each group, five groups in the class.
In reception, she was doing really well and the teacher had nothing but praise (other than that she sometimes needed brought back to task). She was in the “top group” for maths, phonics and reading.
Similar story for year 1, although after Easter in year one she was moved down to the second ability group in phonics and reading.
In year 2, she’s been moved down again to the fourth (out of 5) ability group for phonics and third for reading, and down to the third group in maths. We’ve just had parents evening and the teacher shrugged it off as the ability groups are just reflective of the class and she’s doing ok, but couldn’t give any answer at all when we asked why our DD wasn’t making progress at similar rates to her peers and was now seemingly going backwards (both in ability as well as groups). We know it’s knocked her confidence massively going downwards in the groups as she did have pride that she was up there.
I know the groupings aren’t the end of the world as it’s out of our control how well other children are doing and someone will always be lowest etc, but the lack of actual progress and the swift fall down the groups does worry us (especially when we believed she was doing great being in the top groups in reception/year 1 as a summer born, and that hopefully meant she wouldn’t struggle later).
Because the teacher has brushed us off, we’re not sure what to do. Part of me wants to leave it a while, but the other part just wants to understand what is going on to try to ensure she doesn’t actually fall behind where she’s meant to be.
I don’t want to heap pressure on my daughter, but if there’s things we can help with at home we will but this is hard if we’re being told things are fine at school!
What would you do here?