PrettyBrightFireflies, yeah, it was a bit of a nerve you hit, and that's not your fault. Thanks for the apology.
I didn't like the idea that PTA loses money and has playground politics, as that's not been my experience.
I've chaired the PTA for three years, my husband has been vice-chair of governors for the same amount of time (he has very strong experience in education and government), and we have worked hard in our area (Cambridgeshire, which receives approximately £800 less per pupil than the national average). So I'm a bit touchy about my firm belief in PTA adding value to a school.
Your experience sounds awful, I'm sorry to hear it.
Because our county is under-funded, the whole school works very well together. We know we start from the bottom and have to make more than other areas.
In addition to the tireless work of PTA committee members we've adopted a strategy of structuring events to maximise donations (to include Gift Aid), seeking local and national sponsorship, and organising events that arein effectbegging for money. (Top tip: in a primary of 200, if you want to make a quick £1000+, hold a Sponsored Spellathon.)
Going back to the OP, I think she was just asking about possibilities rather than stating an intention to override decisions. This thread has shown each school is different. My advice is that it never hurts to ask.
Again, each body should work together. That's paramount.