I'm not talking about people who are focused on levels etc. I'm talking about the experiences of people I know who just care about the fact their child is being put of education, isn't learning how to learn and are bored.
Re 11+. It wouldn't be. I didn't say she can't or won't do stuff that she finds very easy. Just that it isn't her primary motivation. She'll do it when she needs to. However in every lesson isn't an actual need. And has the reverse effect because it encourages children they don't need to try or concentrate.
Nor did I indicate her English would let her down. Its just not anywhere near on the same level as her maths. More than good enough not to let her down in any entrance test though. I supplied her with the materials, one set of papers to look through and the nvr/vr guide booklet for her to look through. A quick 5 minute chat on exam technique. And I timed a practice exam. We also did the same for the different papers used in another exam. So hardly tutored and hot housed to succeed in 11+. She got the hens tooth fully funded place at a top independent off the back of it, so I'm quietly confident she wouldn't let herself down elsewhere.
She didn't need to take anything in as a filler. As I've said her primary did teach her at the level that she needed, or at least as far as was practically possible, without me needing to ask or push. That doesn't mean I don't realise not everyone has a school like that. And don't forget, not every able child has parents that are involved. So it's doubly unfair that the most underprivileged but able childs needs can easily be ignored if they haven't got either the school or a parent to meet their needs.
I didn't say she got all level 6's. I said the only level 6's in her class. The next high ability group after her got a few level 5's. It's not a high achieving primary on average, or one interested in teaching for the sake of bumping up the league tables. It teaches what's best for the individual.
She hasn't got either the maturity or in my opinion the actual ability to have got a level 6 in reading. Her primary thought so too. She was doing some of the past papers in normal lessons as class work, but not with any intention of even sitting l6 reading. With a hell of a lot of hot housing, teaching to the test and a lucky paper she just might have had a chance. But that isn't how either I or her school think. Fluking a l6 reading wouldn't have been in anyones interests, most of all hers.
L6 maths however is a different matter. She didn't learn it for entrance exams, or just the stuff on the sats papers. She'd already passed beyond that point. Not my assessment, school told me where she was up to and what she was doing.
Her literacy in general got the same attention as her maths, she just happens to be better at the latter and enjoys it more, hence doing more out of school that advances it further.
The main thing is though, that while I'm aware my dd is far end of the bell curve, but I'm also aware she's certainly not in the super rare genius category. There's plenty of other kids just as naturally able, or slightly above or below, being cheerfully ignored by the state system. Some have parents doing what they can, some won't. Nor do I have a personal axe to grind, her primary was great and she's escaped the doom of our catchment school. Again though, suitable education for the most able shouldn't be reliant on the luck of finding a school or teacher who wants to do it, the system itself should have some provision.
The most failed able kids are those from underprivileged backgrounds with parents unable or unwilling to help them. They are well and truly fucked over by the biggest possible chance they have in life.