ThreeTomatoes
My daughter learned to read the way yours has done - 40 years ago. She has always been a very good speller too. Unlike my son.
And u absolutely right about
best way to learn to read, and to write, is to, well, read, read, read and read some more. Early phonics teaching makes sense because, well, you have to start somewhere,
And phonics is no by no means useless, because the spellings for consonants have fairly stable pronunciations, and their sounds are also spelt fairly regularly (apart from the totally unpredictable use of doubling in 2-syllable words and longer, e.g. shoddy body). - And nearly every English word contains more consonants than vowels. Some have many more, e.g. sing, spring, string.
So learning the main pronunciations for the spellings/graphemes of consonants well to start with is very useful indeed.
If it wasn't for the many beastly spellings of vowels, learning to read and write English would be much easier and take far less time than it does.