It is week 8 of term for me and I am completely and utterly exhausted. I am so sick and tired of reading that I am feckless/ lying/ don't give a flying f@ck about kids/ lazy/ generally worthless. I do the very best I can with the lousy support provision I am given. I am currently worried sick about a huge group of kids who are absolutely miles behind and who all need a huge amount of SFL that they are simply not getting as there is no budget for it. My TA tells me I will feel better when I share my concerns at Parents' Night. I don't know that unburdening will make me feel any better.
I don't work in England so I don't work within the same legal framework. However, here's my reality. 21 kids, 6 have EAL. Only 2 of them have any support from EAL staff- 40 mins a week shared between 2 kids. 1 child with significant learning and physical needs. They have 1 hour a day TA support. 6 kids are in need of significant SFL input. They get 40 mins, 3 times a week as a group. There are a small group who have significant emotional problems. They have some, often erratic and crisis led, support from outside agencies. On top of that I have 2 highly able kids who also need teacher input. Then there are the rest of the class. I cannot do anymore than I am doing. My LA have no money for any extra funding. Nothing.
When I have had/ have a 1:1 I use them in a range of ways. Sometimes I will use them to sit with and support the child in order for them to access the curriculum. Other times they will take a small group, including the statements child, and work with them. Yes, this means your child is sharing their time with someone else. But it also means they are having the opportunity to work successfully with their peers. Sometimes my TA is no-where near your child, I am. I am working with them because I'm their teacher and I need to know what they can do/ teach. In these situations my TA will be with another child, possibly even one with no audited hours. Audited hours are like hens's teeth- not having them doesn't mean they don't need them.
I am not setting out to scupper your child's future. I got into teaching because I believe in the power of education. However, as the years go on, there is less and less support for the children who need it. A full time TA and appropriate curriculum does not always stop a child from hitting adults and classmates. I don't think it is okay that colleagues are assaulted not do I think it should be regarded as less important than a child staying in school. I'm horrified that some posters don't see this as a huge concern.
I have several times told parents when their child's support has been directed elsewhere. I always make it clear to them I will deny I told them if they say it came from me. But I do it because it is the right thing to do. The vast majority of teachers are trying the bloody best they can, in trying circumstances, with no resources.