Of course we feel bad that hes so behind but we cant seem to influence or change his course. His mums always blaming others never taking responsability and lets him do what he wants.
during primary he was in anger managment.very disruptive in class, attacked a teacher, got suspended for 2weeks.
He was assessed for adhd/dyslexia to which hes not got both.
He has no obvious disabilbiloities or anything that would prevent him from doing better. He does what he wants and is bit out control.
I cant blame his primary teachers for struggling with him.
when he got accepted to good 1/3secondries in his town ex gramer most academic they started catch up lessons for him we thourght maybe the other kids good behaviour and work ethic rub off on him.
but he dident he went through extreme naughty behaviour like he wanted to be expelled year 7 and and 8, when we asked his mum she kept saying hes fine.
The pru centre he went to sounded awful. mostly boys, couple of kids from care system, his behaviour got worse when quizzed what work he did we were not really sure.
hes now in comp no 2 with learning support unit but the intake is much mixed deprived than old one so his mates that go there are ones on estate where he lives they all want to do same pointless things. hes very immature for his age and easily led.
He can read just not flunetly so would say hes probably good few years behind his age. hes picked soft options at gcses.
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btec hospitality
hes in lower sets for scinece.maths english .
art
cant remember is 4th option.
havent seem much eveidence of him trying harder due to his bad beahviour not seen him in few months,
Im kind of hoping hes one of few and not many as uk be sad place if so many kids failed but many comps here dont even get 50%a-c pass rate so do wonder whats happening with 50%. my local cmp has 43%pass rate secondries cant perform miracles can they if tehy come from primary so far behind. in states they hold them back a year maybe thats a good thing.
our upbringing, where e live and our childs upbringing/schools very different so hoping outcome be better for mine.