Help! Unexpectedly been offered a place at finton when we assumed we wouldn't get one. I loved FH, dp loves BH. Dp is white and I am not and i am a bit nervy about snobbery at BH. BH seems quite formal, fussy about uniforms etc but I suppose BH would be a very good formative environment for my rather bossy, headstrong, lively little girl. She is very sociable and well liked so I think she'll do well anywhere, but does need to get better at doing what she is told when in a group. DP and I loved FH but weren't expecting a place so put hefty deposit down for BH - not sure yet about getting it back, need to check paperwork.
Will have a chat with her nursery but any thoughts??