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ApuskiMcClusky · 25/05/2012 11:09

I'm feeling the need to chat to others about dc starting school in September - there are a few threads with tips about uniform etc, but I'd like a chinwag about it all too!

Anyone else?

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missmapp · 20/06/2012 19:56

Hi all,

We had our parents meeting last night, not much difference from ds1, but seem to put a bit more of a push on reading and writing now.

Ds2 starts his 'storytime' sessions at the school this week, so hopefully they will be fine- he is still adamant he is staying in nursery, so hopefully this will help change his mind!!

roadkillbunny · 20/06/2012 20:32

disclaimer - sorry for the mega post, feeling the need to babble on and DH is sick of hearing it so babbling here, really won't be at all offended if nobody reads this!

Hello again folks :D
Finally got the info from school last week, I had asked about it every time I was in the office for something over the last month but the school had still not got the final class list back from the LEA so was struggling to sort out meeting dates and induction dates but finally we have something, a few places are still in flux the secretary said as a few had declined paces in favour of pre preps (perfectly normal round here although they are wasting their money, local joke is that our school is the state prep and I know many parents that have transferred over to us from some of the most prestigious preps in the country lol!) so there will be some happy people on the waiting list no more :)
We have the new parents meeting this week and then at the beginning of July the parents meeting with teacher, first induction morning and school open afternoon, mid July is the second and final induction morning when the whole new reception class gets together for the first time as every class in the school moves up to their new September classes for the morning. After all that then it is final days at pre-school and all the events going on there. I can't believe this is it for me now with the village pre-school and also toddler group, been involved with pre-school for 4 years now and the toddler group since we moved to the village 6 years ago, it was the first place I met people and made friends, I have been heavily involved in the running of it for most of that time and was a key committee member until I stood down before Christmas in preparation for DS starting school, it feels like an end to an era, I guess it is, even though I don't go much these days as DS has grown out of it a bit I am still feeling like I am leaving a very happy little club that I will forever more be excluded from, stupid, nearly crying just typing it! Was a big part of life for a long time and while I was on committee took up a great deal of time still I leave my mark, several things that I introduced and pioneered are continuing strongly and it felt a bit strange to have a notice of a 'traditional annual programme' that I developed and established, it is nice to leave a legacy lmao!

I am looking forward to speaking with ds's teacher to go over his extra needs in regards to his speech, he is seeing his speech therapist next week so will be good to have the therapists current action plan fresh in my mind when I go to that meeting. I am also going to ensure that SaLT send their report to both big school and pre-school, my past experience of this particular SaLT team is that you have to tell them what good practice is and push them to do it!

It is all getting very real now and exiting, I am less worried then I was about his readiness for school, over the last couple of months he has really come on when it comes to his self care, things like dressing himself, being able to do up zippers etc. We are even making progress on the bottom wiping, lots of praise for the days when he has no stains in his underpants seems to be doing the trick, the 'Your pants have no poo' dance and song is something to behold lmao!
Both DS and I are feeling really positive about school now, the only worry is his speech and I know school will look out for him and put in place everything he needs, so glad that he is not my first and I have been through a child with speech issues starting school before and I know how good the school and teacher is with this, even though DS's issues are far more pronounced with DS I have every faith in the school, SaLT, that's a whole other post I am about to put on the relevant board!

I have been given lots of hand me down uniform for him which is great, only need to buy 3 more logo polo shirts and a couple more pairs of shorts and we are good to go, just got to get a set of uniform ready for him on his induction mornings as tradition in the village is to send then in uniform for the induction days, think I may cry now ust thinking of him in is grey shorts and socks sob!

Destrier · 20/06/2012 20:39

It's nice to hear other people's stories Smile

Is ds's school the only one with no open evening/ parents' evening? I feel like I am sending him off in to a big black hole... Angry Sad

SpeckleDust · 20/06/2012 20:46

Gah! Just back from dd2's parents meeting where I found out she is on her own in her class from the 7 kids that are coming from her preschool class. The others are split 3 in one and 3 in the other. Bit miffed as it would've been nice for her to have a friend to start with.

Now slightly worried that I won't know many parents either to start with (except the mum of a classmate of Dd1's who seemed to know bloody everyone from her ds's nursery)

PeppermintCreams · 20/06/2012 21:47

We've finally got the information letter. Two school meetings in July. One to explain about settling in, school day etc, and the other one to explain about how they teach literacy and maths. We will also have a private meeting with the teacher during the first couple of days back. They will do one week of 9-11.30, one week of 9-1pm, then they are starting full time. No induction sessions. Don't know if it's because most of the new reception would have gone to the nursery, or if they are doing something during nursery sessions?

Don't know who's in his class yet. But I'm sure there'll be lots from the two morning nursery classes. Worried his best friend won't be in his class though.

Uniform - I've just ordered 2 x branded jumpers and 2 x branded t shirts. Plus unbranded extras from M&S and Sainsburys. I've got enough to be getting on with anyway, as he's already got uniform from the nursery.

Destrier · 20/06/2012 22:10

Envy at two school meetings

NorkyButNice · 21/06/2012 10:56

I'm joining you all!

DS1 has his first (of three) play afternoon at school today, he seems really excited about it but he can be really shy around new people so fingers crossed it goes ok.

We have to take him to his classroom and then go along to the school hall where we get to chat to the head, uniform supplier, and other parents. It's all really well organised.

He doesn't start properly till Wednesday 12th Sept at 9.25 as they do staggered start times, then it's till midday for the first 2 weeks, till 1.45 for the 3rd week, then as normal.

Need to order name tags, uniform...so much to think about!

Cuddler · 21/06/2012 12:38

My ds is going in on Wednesday to meet some of the other kids that will be in his class and his teacher.I spoke to his teacher on the phone and she sounded nice.My other two who will be 2 and a half and 3 and a half in September are also starting the playgroup attached to the school,so i wont know what do do with myself!Until the end of September when number 4 s born!

Apparently i will be getting all the info and lists then too,so i am looking forward to it,its all new for us,its going to be a big change but hopefully a positive one!

ilovedarthmaul · 23/06/2012 21:03

We had our meeting - DS new teacher seems lovely. We had a school dinner with the othre kids & parents which was fine .......but he looked sooooooo little carrying his tray - i was terrified he would drop it! Am going out at weekend to get uniform & ordering the logo'd uniform on Monday from the school. He only stayed an extra hour on the meeting day but he was SHATTERED when he got home - think the hall/dinner thing may have tired him out along with the extra hour _ have made a mental note not to plan anything the 1st few weeks in Sept!

AuntieBulgaria · 28/06/2012 09:39

DD has her first taster session this afternoon and had a melt-down about it this morning.

We have talked to her about it before and she didn't seem too worried but I guess reality has hit her this morning. She says she doesn't like going to big new places without us and if we can't stay, she won't go in.

I'm really sad that she's worried as everyone else's child seems to be excited about starting.

We are normally both out at work but have been on holiday in the last week, so she's got used to seeing us a lot more than normal. There will be other children there from pre-school but her best friend will be in the other class.

Has anyone else had a reluctant starter?

She's going to be one of the oldest and is quite verbally sophisticated so I think sometimes I forget she's still just little.

elliejjtiny · 28/06/2012 10:56

My DS2 is going to be a reluctant starter I think. He's not keen on doing anything new when he is tired and he is tired a lot of the time. DS1 is in a mixed year 1/year R class this year (he is year 1) and on the first day back there was a few children in tears and a few more clinging to their mums. DS1 burst into tears because he thought some kind of tragedy had happened. Felt so embarrassed as quite a few new starters were fine and I was there with a howling child who had already been going to school a year.

DS2 has had his school meeting and 4 stay and play sessions. He spent most of the 4th session asleep. He's only doing 2 mornings, 9-12 the first week but I'm still flapping about how he will cope.

BornToFolk · 28/06/2012 12:37

I took DS to see his new school yesterday. I had concerns about it as it was our 4th choice and has just come out of special measures. However, it seemed fine. A bit grubby around the edges but the staff were welcoming and friendly and the children seemed well behaved and engaged. And the outside areas are all really good, loads of play equipment and space to run around.
DS really liked everything he saw, although he was a bit shy with the teacher.

I'm still not 100% sure how he'll start. I did ask about settling in and they said they thought it would be mornings only for the 1st week. I really hope it's not going to be any longer than that as I'm running out of annual leave...

And the settling in sessions prior to term seem a bit ad hoc, i.e. you can ask for them if you think your child needs them was the impression I got.

There's a meeting next week that exP is going to go so hopefully they'll have a bit more information then.

I think I've got everything bar school jumpers and shoes. I've got 3 pairs of trousers and 5 polo shirts on the basis that they are cheap as chips and I want to avoid mid-week washing!

AuntieBulgaria · 28/06/2012 19:19

Well, that was ok actually. Although she was still complaining just before we went, once we got there, she was whisked off and on to the carpet before she had a chance to object.

I was hovering by the gate close to chucking out time and she came out into the outdoors play area to tell everyone out there it was tidy up time, so seemed to have found her feet.

I imagine we will have some bother in sept but at least she did give it a go today. :)

ThePathanKhansWitch · 28/06/2012 20:37

Just bought dd uniform, got most from M&S and a bit of logo stuff. She looked so small Sad, but also like Beryl the Peril with her plaits Grin.

We tried it all on, and dd said "Do I look like a real schoolgirl ?"!. I had to let her sleep in her shirt (short sleeved as per invaluable advice on this thread).

We have talked about school and she was worried that they won't have enough toilet roll in the toilets Confused.

Going in for a stay next week. Really looking forward to it. Really nervous as well. Hope all your plans are going well.Smile

myBOYSareBONKERS · 28/06/2012 21:07

ThePathanKhansWitch - put a packet of pocket tissues in her book bag so she knows they are there if there isnt any loo roll. Any thing to make her feel at ease.

ThePathanKhansWitch · 28/06/2012 21:20

Oh great idea myBoys, I really should have thought of that, shouldn't I?Blush. Thanks.

IwishIwasmoreorganised · 28/06/2012 21:22

Can I join you all ?!

DS2 will be starting derbyn (reception) in September. He's been in meithrin (nursery) for mornings since last september and ds1 is currently in year 1.

We found out today via a newsletter that there will be a meeting on 12th July for parents, the same day as ds2's sports day but we don't know what time yet! What a pain, it's a day that I'm in work, and we have 2 sports days and 2 class assemblies on thursdays and Friday's for the next 2 weeks already!

I'm hoping that his uniform that he wears now will be ok for september, it's all labelled up nicely with iron on labels from Easy2name, and permanent marker on the care labels! I will need to buy them both new shoes though, will get an appt booked for that to make sure we don't end up waiting for ages!

Ds2 is most excited about getting his box bwyd (lunch box), and knowing that he'll have more to do in this years Christmas service!!

For those of you planning on getting name labels with just surnames, I hope that you have unusual surnames! In ds2's class, there are 2 children with a name beginning in E and the same surname, so first name and surname is what I would recommend.

roadkillbunny · 28/06/2012 23:48

Hello all! So I did end up going to the new parents meeting last week and as I thought there wasn't really anything new since dd started (almost 3 years ago, yikes!) although the changes to the EYFS curriculum and scores was touched on and an information sheet given out (haven't looked at it yet mind lol!), also got to find out the final class size (we have had a strange thing with PAN over the last 3 years since the new reception class room was built the year dd started, until 2013 admissions the PAN is still set at 20 at which point it will go up to 26 however due to pressure for places in the surrounding area since dd's year they have taken 26 anyway) and as suspected they have again taken 26 even though for the village 2007/2008 was a freakishly low birth year and even counting out of catchment siblings (that come after catchment children) we couldn't fill more then 16 places however the surrounding area has followed the national boom trend so 26 it is, quite glad really as including ds we are only sending 6 boys up from the village and ds could really do with a wider friend pool so hoping some\ of the 'fresh blood' will be boys. Found out there is also one appeal pending and as we are building our final new classroom over the summer bringing an end to mixed year classes in KS2 I can't see how the appeal can fail really, it isn't ICS, the rooms and other areas can cope and there is a shortage of school places so it is looking like we will be the largest year ever at 27 (won't be long until we are taking 30, makes me a bit sad as love the smaller class sizes we have but now we will have a classroom for each year group, the county is short of school places and the budget cuts have hit us badly being in a fairly wealthy area (we only have 5 children on FSM in the whole school so bugger all pupil premium comes our way) the school is going to struggle to keep classes under 30 as they need the income from taking the extras, the PTA does an amazing amount to give our children an amazing school experience but they can only do so much. The parish council will have kittens if PAN or even unofficial PAN (like we have now) goes up any more, they have already done a huge amount of foot stamping about going up to 26 officially due to the fact the catchment area can only provide so many children (protected green belt, no chance of new housing, absolute maximum of 500 homes in the whole catchment area that spreads over 3 villages and 2 hamlets) and there has only been one occasion in the whole history where a child in catchment didn't get a place. They are really against any further expansion as it means that places will be filled by children coming in from other villages or the nearest town, parents will have no option but to drive them to school and traffic and parking at school drop off/pick up is already the root of many, many (justified) complaints to both school and parish council, if can get lethal combined with areas with no pavement, very narrow pavement, blind bends, village shop customers and pre-school having drop off/pick up at similar times just down the road at the hall. A PAN of 20 in all \but the very rare bumper year is more then required for all local children to go to their local school, we have the school bus for those from the surrounding villages and farms in catchment, going to 30 would over time (as larger classes moved up the school) mean approximately 50 to 70 cars coming into the village in the morning, the village isn't even big enough to fit that many cars parked on the road (car park space available can accommodate 10 cars!)! As it is right now with an intake of 26 for 3 years we are already at breaking point.
Oops, sorry, way, way sidetracked there, need to get off my hobby horse on village politics, especially given I am talking to people who have no connection and really, don't care, sorry, feel free to skip over the rest of this post and any I make in the future!

Back to the point Blush, have meeting with reception teacher Monday when I can start to sort through the issues of ds's extra needs (speech and hearing) and then Wednesday is the first induction morning, it is tradition here to send then in uniform for induction visits and I get emotional every time I think about my wee boy in his grey shorts and socks [sob] !
Used uniform sale tomorrow so going to be on the look out for logo polo shirts as want to have one for each day and as dd mainly wears pinafore dresses I only have 2 already and want to avoid paying full price for too many of them given the trashing they will get, 50p an item from used uniform so will be on the look out for dd to, at least I don't need any logo jumpers, in dd's first year I managed to collect almost 20 in various sizes from people passing them on to me, dd is small for her age and ds big so school polo's and jumpers will be interchangeable between them, small mercies are good!

Everything is just so very real now and ds is feeling it to, he is really exited to be going to big school with his beloved sister but he is also unsure about leaving his pre-school which he loves. He has been having quite a few bad dreams lately and I can't help but think it is all tied into this transition, must be very scary for him, he hasn't got much speech so worries I think about being understood and I think he is also worrying about things like the school bell (hand bell rung by older children) as due to his hearing issues certain noises really hurt his ears, looking into getting him ear defenders for certain times of day but going to wait until have chatted to teacher on Monday.

mega woffle of nonsense who cares rubbish from me. sorry. everyone around me in real life is sick of my ramblings so I seem to be inflicting it on you poor souls, I should just write a diary and spare the world really!

roadkillbunny · 28/06/2012 23:50

OMG, and it looks so much worse now I see it posted.
so
very
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sorry
bet you are wishing there was a 'hide poster' option Blush

OliviaLMumsnet · 28/06/2012 23:57

just seen this. This is me. My PFB.

OliviaLMumsnet · 28/06/2012 23:57

That post was to mark my place btw. Blush
Hello everyone Grin

whatlauradid · 29/06/2012 00:12

Joining.

DD starts Reception in September. She has just turned four so is one of the youngest in the class but is more than ready and very excited. She got in to our first choice school (the junior school of the nursery she is currently attending) which is amazing as we're borderline catchment area and the little boy in her nursery who lives in the same street has been sent to a school 5 miles away.

I've been to the school for a brief informal presentation from the teachers with the other parents and the only real disappointment is thst there are two classes but DD us in the same class as someone with her exact first name, double barrelled and all!

Thinking if uniform already. The school want £13 for a cardigan so all other bits and bobs will be picked up from Asda as I'm on a budget.

Name tags. Iron on or sew on? Where can I buy them?

Hopefully buying her a Cath Kidston kids backpack if I can afford it as I've never seen a child there with one but they all gave the same/similar character backpacks.

Is anyone planning on joining the parent comittee or whatever it's called?

whatlauradid · 29/06/2012 00:16

I also want to brag that DD1 PFB was in her nursery play today as the lead role with three lines :D! So proud of her. She's a natural show off so loved all the attention bless her.

GwendolineMaryLacey · 29/06/2012 00:19

Had a session at the school today. DD1 was taken off to her new classroom with her teacher while we had a pep talk from the head and tried to suss out which of the two classes everyone was in. DD got the nicest teacher and is in the same class as one of her best friends and her cousin. Result! But omg I am going to be a wreck cone September. Today was bad enough!

simpson · 29/06/2012 07:37

Roadkill - did you ask for an extra meeting re your DS's extra needs for speech/mobility??

We have our meeting next week for all the new parents and I know I am going to have to brave it and ask for a special meeting to discuss what extra support DD is likely to need.

For example she simply cannot use normal scissors as she does not have the strength in her hands, she will need extra help at lunch time and she cannot use the water fountain.

As she attends the nursery attached to the school and they have a parents eve on the 10th I can always ask anything at that that I have forgotten about.

Can't remember who asked about being on the PTA but yes I am on it because DS is in yr2. Have volunteered to help decorate the school hall for the yr6 leavers do next week!!!