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I'm so angry I'm shaking but don't know what to do

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muffinflop · 06/10/2011 11:02

I had a phone call from school this morning asking if I could pop in when I had time because DD had had a 'little accident'. They said it wasn't anything to worry about but DD was crying and wanted to come home so could I go down and then decide if she should come home or not.

So, obviously, I went straight down. I found DD in the office shaking, pale and sobbing so much she was heaving and the TA was holding a sick bucket just in case Sad It turns out she was attacked by a boy in her class. He pulled her chair backwards making her fall off, she hit her head on the floor and then he got on top of her and was pulling her hair, shouting in her face and kicking her legs. And all because the teacher said she'd drawn a lovely picture. I was told of this away from DD but could hear her in the next room crying for me the whole time so I said I couldn't deal with it now and there was no way I was leaving DD there today.

I don't know how the boy has been dealt with but I did pass his mum on the way out and she kind of looked at DD crying and said 'oh dear is she not well' but I was so f*cking angry I just walked away from her (I know I would have cried if I'd stopped to say anything).

I've just phoned them back to tell them I want a meeting with the teacher and the HT this afternoon and they were very understanding and said they'd see me after school pick up. But what do I say? I'm so angry I'm shaking. I don't deal with confrontation well but there's no way I'm letting this go seeing the state of DD Sad

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MOSagain · 07/10/2011 21:13

oh bless her, hope the Harvest festival gives her something to look forward to and they make her feel special. It is a shame she doesn't get to go back before the boy but hope she settles back in ok.

wantadvice · 08/10/2011 06:23

Read this thread with tears. Your poor dd . If they were adults she wouldnt have to face him in work. At least there is a chance now interventions can be put into place to hopefully ensure this doesnt happen again. Sounds like the other child has lots of issues that will need dealing with by his family and the school.

sarah1002 · 08/10/2011 07:14

Do they have two classes? I think it might be worth asking if she can be moved to the other class if so.

It's early days in reception and she will have to make new friends but it's better now than later.

If there's only one class I'd be a bit more concerned about the possibility this could happen again - after all we don't know why it occurred in the first place.

It's possible the school will nOT do anything proactive to prevent a recurrence, due to lack of funding, etc. So make sure you know exactly what they are putting in place.

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