Jalapeno,
U are doing great. Please carry on as u are.
Children have to learn vocabulary as well as learn to read. Until having grandchildren I had forgotten how long they take to learn irregular verbs ('bought, caught' instead of 'buyed, catched').
I've just posted on the thread re MN being obsessed with reading. It seems relevant to this discussion too.
In English-speaking countries, there is plenty of evidence that early readers tend to do better academically than those who learn later. So ideally children should start to learn to read as soon as they are able to, but, unfortunately, quite a few still need to be helped to become reading-ready when they start school.
The Rose review concluded, "...for most children, it is highly worthwhile and appropriate to begin a systematic programme of phonic work by the age of five, if not before for some children, the way having been paved by related activities..."
(and couple of pages later) ...an appropriate introduction to phonic work by the age of five enables our children to cover ground that many of their counterparts in other countries whose language is much less complex phonetically do not have to cover.
Like most people, he confuses language with spelling. (The English language is one of the simplest in the world but its spelling is one of the most irregular.) But his overall reasoning re starting age seems quite sensible. Given the lousiness of English spelling, it's good to start children reading as early as possible, but they are not all able to make equally good progress from the same age.
One big advantage of starting early, for children who are able do so, is that they imprint many of the phonically irregular spellings (man/many, woman/women, lost/most) on their memory before logical thinking kicks in. It's probably easier to memorise such words without noticing the stupidity of their spellings.
In other words: help children to become reading-ready as early as possible, and as soon as they show signs of being able to cope, help them learn as much as u can.
And Rose also said, "the use of decodable books should certainly not deny children access to favourite books and stories at any stage and particularly at the point when they need to read avidly to hone their skills, as the focus shifts from learning to read to reading to learn."
We would not be having this discussion if learning to read English wasn't so difficult. Nor would there be any debate about how best to teach it. When it comes to learning a difficult skill,and especially one that involves lots of memorisation, learners cope in more varied ways and the teaching is less fool-proof.