I realise that "inadequate" is a term used by OFSTED. I still think it is a dreadful term when describing children/their abilities.
May I share my story with you?
My ds1 is now 7....he is a summer baby He had developmental delay as a baby (late to sit unaided, late to talk etc) but is fine now (very intelligent, fantastic vocab) apart from issues with literacy.
He began nursery at 3 (too young - he wasnt ready but the HT told me if he didnt go 5 mornings a week at 3 he would lose his place)
He went into reception a happy and bright child.
Within 4 weeks of starting year 1 he came home and told me he had a "stupid brain".
Ds1 being my first child I am afraid I was very ignorant of ability tables etc and didnt realise til parents eveing about 6 weeks into the term that ds1 was on the lowest ability table.
There were bullying issues (and had been since nursery tbh) which were ignored despite my repeated talks with the relevant teacher.
At said parents eveing we were told ds1 was "struggling". I asked ds1's year 1 teacher how we could help him....was met with a blank stare. He was put on an IEP (without our knowledge) but in practise he didnt get the 10 mins help per day he should have. In the whole academic year his year 1 teacher read with him 3 times.
I asked the SENCO to assess him as I was worried about dyslexia...they dont assess til they are 7.
I researched ways to help him and he completed on online early reading programme called "headsprout" which helped him although he found the last few sessions hard. We also used toe by toe for a while but had to break off during this summer (various reasons) and whilst I have tried to begin again he seems to have genuinely forgotten stuff he knew 3 months ago.
Whilst at school he was made fun of for being "slow" and was told he was on the "thick table" I told his teacher this. Nothing was done.
I should have removed him there and then but i had just had a new baby so I didnt. I regret it deeply.
By the time he started year 2 the damage was done. He hates literacy. Will not read. Thinks he is stupid. I took him out of school in january this year after another serious bullying incident and have been home schooling him since then.
I have loved HEing him but i am not sure its whats best for him the long run and as a He parent there is no funding for extra help i.e. dyslexia testing.
He is going back to school shortly
(hopefully in a month or so) to a school about 3 miles away from where we live.
He is very "behind" where he should be wrt the NC in literacy. I think he is ok in numeracy...better than me in fact!!!!
The HT at his new school was very helpful and he will be assessed when he starts. I know if they think he needs assessing it will be done.
BTW the school I took him out of was rated "outstanding" by OFSTED....I am sure why you can see I set very little store by that.
I am not sure how my ds1 will cope back at school...he is having a "phased return" i.e. mornings only for a while.
I am hopeful for the future but I was wondering.....have any of you teachers taught or known of a child like my son who has gone on to read successfully??