I loved The Wonder Weeks for baby development and found it really useful just for knowing roughly what to expect and what was coming in terms of baby development timelines and I feel like I could really do with something like it for these pre-teen years. My daughter is just turning 10 and I am woefully out of my depth. I know I need to adjust my parenting and that what has worked for the last 10 years is pretty much over - I need to learn how to pick my battles and reinforce the line between normal behaviour and development and unacceptable rudeness and disrespect, but also be there for her. She had always been a chill, happy go lucky little girl but there are some big, big moods and feelings going on and I feel lost at sea. I'm not doing well by her at the moment by handling it quite badly and I need to start to shape up some ideas.
So any book recommendations would be really helpful please. Is there anything that provides some kind of timeline, lays out steps on development or is that wishful thinking?