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Sweet shop stop - help!

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birdsanctuary · 10/09/2021 08:57

Dd 11 has just moved schools. There is a sweet shop close by and she and friends go in mornings before school. I'm not happy with her buying sweets first thing in morning - but am trying to allow her to make sensible choices (both budgeting and healthy lifestyle). She has a debit card so we could monitor amount spent.
Someone suggested that she just doesn't get a treat in her lunchbox that day which I thought was good and probably what will happen.
I think I'm mostly concerned about the habit it may encourage though. The school-uniformed energy drink brigade seems to be growing - it's all I see at bus stops in the mornings - and I don't want my DD making those choices. She already asks for sugary snacks too often and isn't particularly inclined to sports.
Just wondering how anyone else is managing this?

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CatsArePeople · 10/09/2021 13:53

I will say the same as i said on AIBU. This is a fight you're going to lose, so give up now. Stop buying sweet treats for home if so worried about sugar intake.

MissTheobald · 10/09/2021 13:59

Tbh I turn a blind eye. If they don't take money, someone else buys, so a) it'll happen anyway and b) it seems unfair for my kids not to shell out for the others every now and then. It seems to be a bonding (sugar fuelled) ritual!

birdsanctuary · 13/09/2021 12:10

Thank you Miss Theobald... I never thought of it as a bonding ritual but I definitely see what you're saying and that helps me gain perspective. Smile

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