My dd is 12 and at secondary school, I gather that she is a bit of a loner which she says she is ok about but not 100% convinced. Tried talking to her but get the stroppy side come out. She won't leave the house unless absolutely necessary and I am now getting worried there's something more going on. I am going to speak to the school and take her to the docs but am wondering if anyone has any ideas how to get her to open up. We do have a good mother daughter relationship but feel somehow I am letting her down.