Fed up with the fighting

[daffodilbrain]

My DS 11 is constantly picking on dd7 name calling, the odd punch, winding her up etc etc all the usual I guess.... he's getting very sly at Doing it behind my back, and has started answering back - it's driving us mad. any tips on how to manage?

You need to be consistent and fair

Ask what happened before the punch? Then what happened?

Sit them do opposite each other and ask the questions

Don't get angry

Punishment should be loss off screen time

I day for hitting
2 hours for name calling etc

Whatever you decide

Half the rules upnon the wall