Dd1 is 11.5 and I know underneath a nice, caring child, but her new occupation is picking on her 9 year old sister.
Dd2 is not in anyway a drama queen and is probably the more socially astute of the two, so can brush it off for a while, but it is starting to get her down.
If I speak to Dd1 it degenerates into "you blame me for everything", high drama, door slamming and and usually tears :(
Is there any solution?