any thoughts much appreciated, my head is spinning!
DS (nearly 4) is currently attending a lovely nursery (school nursery), brilliantly resourced fab staff, v happy there - had 2 terms of last academic year there so he is v familiar with it.
But we recently moved to a new area, and the school told us we were welcome to keep the nursery place but obviously not apply for a school place, which we did so that DS wouldnt be too traumatised.
However it is a very long drive on the way home - 25 mins there, and about 40 on way back, with ds and DD (aged 1). We have a car that is on its last legs.
Went to see the only place in our new area which had a vacancy - a 'playgroup' which charges about £14 per session, (though discounted for over 3s), its in a church hall and is very sparse and looked so badly resourced to me. Really old tatty toys, just set up in a few areas. Okish play area outside, but DS ran off and was ecstatic because he found a spiderman costume and investigated the toys anyway. Didnt want to leave and insists he wants to go to the new nursery instead.
Do I stick with the old nursery for this academic year which is a long drive but brilliantly resourced and he is learning a lot, or the nearby playgroup which to my snobby eye looks a bit grim, he may tire of quickly and is £.
any thoughts? Mostly Im worried that he would be taking a step 'backward' - but maybe im just being paranoid?
thankyou