We have started looking at preschools for DD. She will be 3.5 when she starts. We looked at one that gives the children worksheets to complete at home - apparently they're optional, but I imagine that if other children are doing them...
I was impressed by what the kids are doing there - quite advanced writing up on the walls, for example - but this all seems a bit hot housey to me. She's my first child so maybe this is normal, or would it put you off?