Please will people stop throwing out the term 'deschooling'.
It is nonsense & if you'd like to tell your local LA you are 'deschooling' then it is a bit like saying
"Actually we are not bothering to fulfil our legal duties with regards to the ongoing full time education of our child & we think school is crap"
Yes, there are some children who become EHE after traumatic experiences either in school or whilst attending school & just as the children who still attend school afterwards have to come to terms with it, so do those who EHE.
Teachers don't let them sit in the park for a year processing their feelings & neither do decent EHE parents.
They do their best to support the child as they ensure that child continues to receive an education.
Yes, there can be an adjustment period as both parent & child learn the differences between in school & out of school learning, just as there is an adjustment period for a child moving schools or from primary to secondary.
You work through it & face challenges as they come.
You don't get to take 6 months off as if you are being deprogrammed from a cult & need to 'recover' from school which is basically what 'deschoolers' think.
I personally think it is also a highly offensive term & is practically guaranteed to put up the back of the LA along with all those extremely hardworking & dedicated teachers who do their best in an overstrained underfunded system.
I'm sure you could give the LA a worse impression if you meet them as you breastfeed a ten year old wearing Princess Leias hairdo & a vampire dress whilst throwing lentil confetti around, but you'd have to work at it.
Deschooling is the sort of nonsense that gives EHE a bad name & I have personally reported families who follow this (e.g. 'play video games for 6 months darling whilst you recover from the trauma of school instead of receiving an education because honestly I haven't thought this through & do not have the skills to provide you with the education or support you need')
There is nothing wrong with school for the majority of children.
There are in fact many children who would not be best served by EHE & who would always do better in school.
Children who are temporarily being educated at home (due to in this case Coronavirus) who thrive in school have no need to 'deschool'.
Neither does any EHE child who has responsible parents who care about their education or wellbeing.
You LA should have an information page relating to EHE which will tell you who deals with it in your area.
Some LAs contract out, others keep it inhouse.
When you deregister from school, the school informs the correct dept in the LA & they usually begin by either doorstepping you & asking you to fill out a form or by writing to you & asking you to fill out a form.
Normally they will ask for an interview to talk about your EHE provision, then arrange follow up meetings or for you to send reports from that point on.
This varies person to person & LA to LA.
You are not legally required to have a meeting & can send a report instead for them to assess, but if you refuse to provide any information this can be a reason to begin the process of issuing an SAO which will force your child back to school.
Honestly, they all say they 'help' but the most help you are likely to get in the majority of areas is a list of websites.
There is NO financial help.
If you are lucky, you may live in an LA where they keep a list of exam centres who will accept external candidates for IGCSE or A level but you will still have to pay for these yourself in most areas.
On your LA website there will be their own local policy.
You also need to read both the LA & parents guidelines published by the government.
www.gov.uk/government/publications/elective-home-education
I have spent over a decade helping people who have problems with EHE.
I am pro EHE.
Deschooling is NO part of good quality EHE, but it has led to thousands of families running into problems with their LA.
It is like MLM for EHE.
Sorry, rant over.
Can you tell I really hate the term 'deschooling'?