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Sex after baby pain

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Bethany1990 · 12/07/2020 01:45

My daughter is now nearly 13 month old she's was so tiny born I was 23 weeks and 5 days I had her naturally and she's my little miracle I spent 156 days sleeping in hospital with her and finally got home begging of December tmi but I used to have a amazing sex life with my husband but I now wait down stairs until he's fell asleep because the pain when I have sex it's nearly unbearable! I actually feel like iv closed up 😂 (I asked my husband if it felt any different and he said no (bit of a let down because he's me thinking I'm like a re born virgin with the tightest muff )😂😂😂 turns out I'm not and it hasn't changed so why the hell am I getting so much pain ... to b honest my daughter was absolutely tiny what I mean by that is no stitches Just literally one big push and she was out ! I had to go to theatre to remove my placenta afterwards and I think they were quite brutal in there 😂 but I had a epidural when I was in surgery just remember a few ppl having there's hand in trying to scoop out the placenta lol they had to leave some cells in and I just got antibiotics after .... anyone else have this ???? I don't no if it's my mind Lol I had sex 2 weeks after she was born and for about 6 month after it was fine but now as much as I'd love nothing more than a good thrust I don't no if lady garden can handle the pain 🙈 I mean we always have a lot of foreplay before ect even toys fingers and oral don't hurt but his penis does

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