Dear Mums
this is a very sad, difficult situation for both me and my husband.
it is my second birth:
- 1st was 21w and few days
- 2nd at 23weeks and 5 days
All of sudden i felt some sharp stiching pains and went for a check up, thats when they found out that the babys leg is pushing out and is the vaginal mouth ... stiching up was not considered as it may break the water.
Baby boy was born yesterday 775gram and is in intensive care :(
The docs did the head scanning and they seen bleeding in both side of the brain:
right side - large bleedings
left side - small to mid range bleedings
they said that there is no chance that the baby will not have a severe disability but will only be able observe when growing older ....
did anyone go through this like in our case !? and what were the implications in terms of the babies health / mental and physical condition?!
we are devastated and really lost ....
maybe it had been a better choise not to go for the assetitation and let the baby go ina better place instead of having severe disbilities and having to sufer all his life - and surely we will sufer with him every minute.
Please let us know your truth and choises you made and the difficulties and all the issues etc etc you been going through and the current stage of your baby with conditions like in our case.
I pray to God...