SA this week - please help

[Orangebee3]

Hi, I have posted on here a few times about my current situation. Ultimately, I have a SA booked for this Thursday and I am fairly sure im going to go through with it. Any advice from anyone that has done the same when still on the fence - please tell
me how you coped and got through it!

I’ve just posted on your other one. You are posting a lot and this suggests you are really thinking about it beforehand. Are you wanting someone to tell you to go for it? I am telling you if that’s the case. Have you told friends? Relatives? Counselling? Not from the termination companies as they just get you through it. Look up some local pregnancy choices telephone lines or National. You need to chat to someone beforehand.

You've posted alot , indicating real torment, and I hope that whatever you decide you get some peace and can move forward. I'd really encourage counselling to help confirm your decision. I'd not make the decision while on the fence, personally. I was about 60/40 in favour of keeping it at the very start and even then knew I'd struggle emotionally with letting it go. Be mindful that there's no come back either way, and if unsure and you go ahead, it can lead to deep upset for some. Generally those who cope best are very sure of their decision. There's no right or wrong answer though. You know yourself best and how you might cope. Wishing you all the best. Look after yourself no matter what.