Termination & contraception advice please

[Teetwo]

I’ll try to keep it short.
I stopped my contraception in January it was giving me horrible side effects I didn’t want to try any more I’ve had a few over the years I have kids (do not want anymore) couldn’t afford one more even if I wanted another 😅

We were using condoms .. other half agreed to having this snip so he’s been looking into it. Sod’s Law happened found out I was pregnant & had a medicated termination in Feb.

Had my first AF in April .. around 6 weeks after the complete termination. Then had 3 AF’s after they weren’t all on time last one came after 35 days.. . this month though 4th one after & still nothing currently on cycle day 39 😩 not pregnant.

I don’t know now if it’s because my body’s still trying to get back to normal post the termination & no contraception?? Anyone else been in similar situation. I have had anxiety & worried.

Thanks for reading 😩

It's good you've been tracking your period, I think if you're anxious and worried you should make an appointment with your doctor so you can put your mind at ease. I'd be worried too if I went that long between cycles. Glad your partner is willing to get a vasectomy so you don't have to go back to the contraception you were on.