I keep thinking I want a 3rd baby.. its on my mind so much.
My current position is im married with a 6yr old and 4.5 year old.. we rent a 3 bed.. and have just got enough for a deposit for a house (we currently rely a little on UC) .. we both work myself part time as a early years practitioner and my husband full time.
But it feels like we have to choose.. do we focus on giving the 2 we have a solid foundation of a forever home.. or do I have another baby. In the ideal world I'd want both.. but I just dont see how we could afford it as if we brought a home we would be on our wages only.. with a mortgage of atleast 1,000 a month..
Im just hoping someone would have some insights or been in this position