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Rude bpas

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Sow86 · 19/03/2025 19:07

Hello. Had my phone consultation with bpas today. The nurse was not very nice to me. This is my second abortion after having one early last year. She basically told me that this abortion could be the one that goes wrong and was just downright rude. I understand her telling me about contraception but got the impression she was trying to scare me!

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sel2223 · 19/03/2025 19:14

Sorry you had this experience but not sure this belongs on the pregnancy board.

lnks · 19/03/2025 19:16

I think there’s a chance you might have misinterpreted her comments.

I find it unlikely that someone from the BPAS holds such views

Sow86 · 19/03/2025 19:58

I apologise for putting it on pregnancy and I hope I interpreted it wrong but she finished our phone call by telling me how one of her women died recently which is totally unnecessary!

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Sow86 · 19/03/2025 20:05

Could this post be deleted as it’s in the wrong place? Thankyou

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CaptainFuture · 19/03/2025 20:12

So you want to complain about being advised about contraception after your 2nd abortion in a year?...

ImaniMumsnet · 19/03/2025 20:40

Hi @Sow86 ,

We have moved this for you now to the Pregnancy choices board - we hope this helps.

lnks · 19/03/2025 21:06

Sow86 · 19/03/2025 19:58

I apologise for putting it on pregnancy and I hope I interpreted it wrong but she finished our phone call by telling me how one of her women died recently which is totally unnecessary!

She told you one of ‘her women’ died because of an abortion?

Sow861 · 19/03/2025 21:16

Yes she had an allergic reaction to the pills! And also I clearly stated I understood the contraception talk!

lnks · 19/03/2025 21:27

Sorry but that sounds like the BS that comes out of the mouths of anti abortion groups

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