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Abortion or miscarriage?

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Broken2024 · 27/12/2024 08:25

Struggled with hyperemesis. Got abortion pills in post. 12 weeks as left so late. Took first then 3 days later took second. Only managed half of 2nd lot spat out (had orally) as felt wrong. 4 hours later tiny bleed on toilet paper. Went to hospital just told them bleed. Scan all ok so discharged. Examined and told cervix closed was just brown blood so old and nothing to worry about. Bleeding stopped until brown old blood day 4 which stopped. 5 days later woke in bed haemorrhaging no pain passed pregnancy. Didn’t see anything had to call ambulance. I am devastated and regret it so much
Was told abortion unsuccessful if doesn’t happen in 3 days when I was given pills but I worry it was
I had absolutely no pain and thought I would with an abortion I thought pills cause cramps
I am absolutely heartbroken, I couldn’t cope with my sickness but I would have loved a baby so much and 3rd pregnancy. I did this out of desperation in a moment of despair. I would feel a lot better if it was miscarriage but worry it wasn’t. Didn’t tell hospital. Was found to have infection that can make miscarriages bit more common. I am struggling so much

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Broken2024 · 27/12/2024 08:27

Small amount brown blood day 4 1/3rd pad but more than before

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Wanted39 · 20/03/2025 15:55

Sounds hard

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