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Pregnancy and wedding .. HELP

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mls2 · 10/12/2024 08:37

Hi,
I have found out I am pregnant with my second child (very early weeks) however my due date will be the same week as my wedding day.
I have a destination wedding, I am from the UK and most people have booked their holiday, paid deposit, flights etc for our big day.
I have so many things going through my mind right now and finding it hard to be happy about the pregnancy when deep down I am because I am so worried about our wedding guests being annoyed at us.
I would like to try and push the wedding date back to the following year but I think this will cause cost to people and I am getting anxious about this.
Any advice would be appreciated please.

OP posts:
Redemption16 · 13/12/2024 13:16

If you put the wedding aside, how do you feel about the pregnancy? Do you want children? I think this is the main thing. How would you feel if you later struggled to conceive? Not saying this would ever happen mind, but depending on your age etc.

I don't think there are many better reasons to move a date! People would understand and with enough notice would hopefully not lose too much money.

But it's your life and up to you. Personally if I otherwise wanted a baby, I wouldn't give it up for what is ultimately one day. But it has to be your decision. Talk to people in person who you trust.

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