I am on the fence about having kids. I swing violently from definitely yes to definitely no and it's absolutely exhausting.
I feel like I've tried to make up my mind by turning to the internet, but I've found a bit of an echo chamber of regretful parents and people who are having an awful time. Also child free people who seem really resentful towards children/mothers in general, which isn't my vibe.
If there is anyone who had doubts about motherhood but took the leap and loves it, please share your stories. I need to hear some nice stories.