am pregnant and I have not told any of my family which I feel guilty about as I tell my mum everything:( I have decided to go through the abortion on my own but I am concerned as my dates are not adding up. My last period was the very beginning of October so when I went in for my scan at the clinic I was expecting to be 22 weeks but the lady told me I was 14 weeks and my abortion isn’t booked until another 3 weeks now. Is my baby just measuring tiny or will it have a growth spurt and be too big to come out or be born with a heartbeat