I have just found out that I am pregnant again. I have an 8yo with severe autism and ADHD and a 9 month old. I also get married in 4 months time. Fiancee and I do not want any more kids and said so after dc2 was born. I am on the list to be sterilsed and have my initial appointment next month. I have my abortion appointment in 2wks time and I think I'll be about 10wks. I had an abortion years ago and was 12wks so had to be in hospital, but can I be at home if under 12wks? Also (sorry if this is offensive/tmi) what happens when things pass at home? Does everything get flushed away? What if things get stuck?