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Abortion and then failed TTC in 30s

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Lifelyk · 28/09/2023 16:05

I am thinking of abortion with my current early pregnancy at 5 weeks but ttc again in 6 months.
I have a 2 yo DC and I want to finish my studies due Dec 2024 and plan a baby for Jan/Feb 2025. I am so unsure at this point on what to do if I couldn't conceive then as I am 34 and will be 35 then.
Any suggestions are appreciated.

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SnowySpa · 29/09/2023 16:30

Have you talked to your partner about it? Would you be able to afford child care so that you'd have extra time to finish up your degree? Do you have any hesitation about aborting a pregnancy? These are all things to consider before making your decision. One thing I know is that life rarely goes the way we planned, and sometimes we just have to make the best of things. There's never a "perfect time" to have children, there's always a reason it's not a good time. Once you graduate you'll probably be looking for a job, so that will bring a new set of challenges. If you want two children, this might be a good time after all. Hope you can find a way forward that you feel good about, and good luck with your studies.

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