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Unplanned pregnancy advice

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Luluflower29 · 03/07/2023 13:01

Hi all, first time user here and could do with some non judgemental advice. I found out over the weekend that I'm 5 week pregnant (my last period was the 29th of May). I'm 90% sure who the father is (my ex) but is there a chance is could be with a one night stand I had protected (condom) with? I'm so embarrassed saying this but on the 9th of June I had a one night stand and had protected sex. And on the 11th of June I had unprotected sex with my ex where he finished inside me.
I'm so torn and don't know what to do I don't know the man from the one night stand and me and my ex don't get on and he will 100% want me to get rid of it. I'm a 31 year old female and would be well capable of doing it all myself and my family are very supportive but what are the chances it could be the man from the one night stands baby? I know I'm so stupid for getting myself into this situation so no judgement please 😭

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ChiliBeanz · 03/07/2023 13:31

Mmmm do you track ovulation etc? 2 weeks after your LMP is the 11th and you had sex with ur ex then on the 12th so, if you had unprotected sex then, and you had protected sex with the other man, it’s more than likely your ex bfs. Condoms aren’t extremely reliable I’ve heard but still if you are sure it was used correctly then it probably is your ex’s. You can get DNA tests now before baby is born. Would who the father is change your mind about this baby? All the best :)

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