Please be aware of pro lifer replies

[Threebutterflies]

There’s a couple of posters on here replying to threads. I’m pretty sure there from pro lifers and should not really be replying on here . It’s not fair to try and guilt trip posters into not aborting . They have no idea what the op is going through. Please just be aware there usually easy to spot as reply with long patronising replies ! Don’t let anyone make you feel bad or guilty! Women have to make the toughest decisions in life and we should be supporting each other no matter what we decide , not guilt tripping us into a decision we’re not happy with !

I think I had a private message from one earlier

Hi I think you can report them. If we keep reporting them hopefully mumsnet will block them .

Hi had a private message from one! I was shocked as I didn’t even realise there was a private messaging option on mumsnet. On my thread I was asking for advice on pain, I had said although it wasn’t an easy decision for me, I had made my decision and was waiting for my appointment with BPAS. This message was written as if this person was being friendly and supportive but was asking me to basically reconsider my decision as her friend has Irish twins (I have two young children and knew I would struggle with a third) and managed ok. In no way was I asking for advice on keeping the pregnancy so why this person thought she had the right to offering her ‘advice’. I was absolutely furious. I blocked instantly.

How rude sending you a private message. They have no right to do that. They try and seem like there being friendly but there really not . Putting there own beliefs before the feelings of the pregnant women. It’s non of there business what you decide to do with your body !